Wiccan instructuions are Defective

About that brother shall deliver up brother part:

Jesus said that would happen once the apostles started preaching, correct?

Why do you follow the teachings of a man who delibrately sent people out to do this kind of destruction?


Kitty Chan said:
I am responding to this post below, Iaachus is responding to the rest of what you 2 were talking about


Originally posted by dmarker

I never said anything about church, did I?

And here's what Jesus will do to families:

Matthew
10:34
Think not that I am come to send peace on earth: I came not to send peace, but a sword.

10:35
For I am come to set a man at variance against his father, and the daughter against her mother, and the daughter in law against her mother in law.

10:36
And a man's foes shall be they of his own household.

10:37
He that loveth father or mother more than me is not worthy of me: and he that loveth son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me.

Would a decent person set family member upon one another?

so this is why I posted this below as a direct response to your post above, these posts can get confusing sometimes :)



Then I posted this below to show you as per your request where this was scripturely :)

Originally posted by Kitty Chan

This part from Matthew is explaining what will happen when they go out to preach and what they should be doing.

Behold, I send you forth as sheep in the midst of wolves: be ye therefore wise as serpents, and harmless as doves.

Mat 10:17 But beware of men: for they will deliver you up to the councils, and they will scourge you in their synagogues;

Mat 10:18 And ye shall be brought before governors and kings for my sake, for a testimony against them and the Gentiles.

Mat 10:19 But when they deliver you up, take no thought how or what ye shall speak: for it shall be given you in that same hour what ye shall speak.

Mat 10:20 For it is not ye that speak, but the Spirit of your Father which speaketh in you.

Mat 10:21 And the brother shall deliver up the brother to death, and the father the child: and the children shall rise up against [their] parents, and cause them to be put to death.

Mat 10:22 And ye shall be hated of all [men] for my name's sake: but he that endureth to the end shall be saved.

Mat 10:23 But when they persecute you in this city, flee ye into another: for verily I say unto you, Ye shall not have gone over the cities of Israel, till the Son of man be come.
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Hope this clears up the conversation :)

btw there was also a bit of a commentary of another opionion from that matthew henrt so you did not have to take my word for it.
 
Ratman_tf said:

So killing an animal is justified if you feel bad about it? Can I kill another human if I feel bad about it? (I'm not trying to put words in your mouth, just trying to clarify your position.)

And now let's put another spin on it. Can I kill someone in self defense? Is that against the commandment? Should I "Turn the other cheek" instead?

Can I kill someone in order to save someone else's life? Say I shoot a person who's threatening immediate physical harm on another? Is that against the commandment? Perhaps I should trust in god's plan instead?

Again, I don't see how "Thou shalt not kill" can't be interpreted as much as "And it harm none, do a ye will".
Or, you could just hire a good lawyer and try to get out on a technicality I suppose. ;)
 
Originally posted by Iacchus
I think the problem here is that people tend to live vicariously through one another, and develop alliances in this respect, much like the "sinners and publicans" (instead of thieves and robbers) in the verses I quoted. So, once a person comes up with an original idea, and begins to think freely, as a person should, it's very apt to destroy that alliance which, of course is based upon dependency (rather than independence). Matter of fact whole societies are based upon this kind of dependency which, is what we call maintaining the status quo.
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Kitty Chan said:
did you read the matthew henry commentary bit I posted earlier? I think we are all getting to an understanding of this part of scripture :)

dmarker the above statement was a question to Iacchus, just so this all is clear :)
 
Originally posted by Kitty Chan
dmarker

I have a idea about that parents and children thing.

Iaccus you are missing something . . .

it is being assumed that parents and children are getting along .

many dont, kids kill parents and vice versa, brothers kill sisters, even rape them. sisters send their brothers to jail, siblings sometimes never talk to one another all their life, husbands kill wives (in the news alot) On and on and on.

Maybe in the "sin" of the family Jesus will "divide"

Divide in the way perhaps the brother will see the sins of his family and decide not to participate anymore and lead a "clean" life and the family will never understand his gooddy goody attitude.


This was my post before the Matthew Henry part, I only posted Matthew Henry because I never take only one thought on scripture and did not think you needed to either

So this is my initial answer, now I will look at your latest post . . . .
 
dmarker said:
I do understand what Jesus was saying; and he said it clearly.

Matthew 10:34
Think not that I am come to send peace on earth: I came not to send peace, but a sword.


A sword is a weapon of war. A sword is used to kill other humans and has never been used for other purposes.

Did Jesus ever carry a sword, When the soldiers ear was cut off did Jesus not put the ear back on. When Jesus cleared the Temple did He use a sword? When He was beat before going to die on the cross, did He resist, did He even say much? As a Lamb to slaughter.

Did Jesus speak in examples and parables, this statement is exactly that, Hes speaking of when your Dad hears you want to be a christian and hes thinks christians are girly men whimps and disowns you. Hes referring to that Muslim woman I spoke of whos husband will take away the children and leave her if she admits it.

Jesus refers to a sword because it will feel like your father has killed you when he withdrawns himself from you never to talk to you again and in fact maybe will speak against you to all you both know.

As people are so violently opposed to the teachings of Jesus, then they will turn that venum back on the one that believes in Jesus teachings.


10:35
For I am come to set a man at variance against his father, and the daughter against her mother, and the daughter in law against her mother in law.


He has come to set family members on one another. I ask again, what kind of person would do such a thing?

Jesus isnt setting each against his own, He knows mans heart and again, what I just said above.

10:36
And a man's foes shall be they of his own household.


Jesus will make a man's family turn on him. Have these men done anything to deserve this? Don't give me anything about "thieves and robbers" or "the families don't get along".

(theives and robbers was Iacchuss)

Families dont get along?? Siblings cant even agree on proper distribution of the back seat of a car on a trip. What if your sister decides to fall in love with a missionary, and they want to travel to africa to help in the Aids crisis? You are gonna see red, shes wasting her life with that guy following a myth.

People are turning on those who express a faith, why because those who profess a faith have admited they are wicked. Then when my brother hears that, he reflects it back to himself and assumes that I now am a goody goody.

Therefore my brother assumes he must be so wicked, he pays his taxes and lives a generally good life, and does not agree. So he gets mad at me because he feels "judged" by me.

When I was Never judging him. The conviction of his own wickedness is judging him, He knows this in the back of his heart but what to do with it?? He has a solution, do what I did by admiting it or ignoring it.

Humbleness is a forgotton trait, if one cannot be humble, one will never see that they are not fantastic in their own sight. Being totally honest with oneself.

Who has not lied at least once? maybe gotten mad at someone for personal gain? Looked at another while your signaficant other is elsewhere or even beside you? Cheated just a bit, made a story just a little better for drama?

When people are confronted with these things the first thought is not to spring to humbleness, even christians one has to work at it.

This is what Jesus is getting at when He states that He knows the hearts of men. And He is explaining the results of speaking to the people to his apostles and how self examination is the hardest thing for people to accept


10:37
He that loveth father or mother more than me is not worthy of me: and he that loveth son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me.


This really reminds me of "cult" thinking where the leader expects the members of the cult to give up close relatives to follow him.

Yes, cult leaders that take up the false position of being christ do say such things. They think they are Jesus. But tell me would one of them leave their position of importance? Then travel to another country and take the sentenace for its prisoners in the jail? Get beaten and die a excoriating death to be Jesus? Not a chance they would even leave their position of importance.

They claim to be Jesus and may even appear to be the best thing since sliced bread but, what do they do??? for anyone. What do they truly give of themselves?

They tell you to cut yourself off from your friends,

Jesus said your friends will hate having to face themselves so the friends and family will cut you off


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Kitty Chan said:

Did Jesus ever carry a sword, When the soldiers ear was cut off did Jesus not put the ear back on. When Jesus cleared the Temple did He use a sword? When He was beat before going to die on the cross, did He resist, did He even say much? As a Lamb to slaughter.
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Nope, but he did use a weapon on the people in the temple.

How could he resist? He had as much chance as any other poor slob nailed to the cross on the Appian Way. You might not know Roman history well; there was a great slave revolt led by Spartacus. He lost and many slave were nailed by the side of the road along the Appian way. Imagine this scene where man after man on crosses twitching agony for a mile or more.



Kitty Chan said:


Did Jesus speak in examples and parables, this statement is exactly that, Hes speaking of when your Dad hears you want to be a christian and hes thinks christians are girly men whimps and disowns you. Hes referring to that Muslim woman I spoke of whos husband will take away the children and leave her if she admits it.

Jesus refers to a sword because it will feel like your father has killed you when he withdrawns himself from you never to talk to you again and in fact maybe will speak against you to all you both know.

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Again the cult leader thing. Does it really matter if your family withdraws from you or you withdraw from your family? The point is that Jesus came with the intent of breaking up families.



As people are so violently opposed to the teachings of Jesus, then they will turn that venum back on the one that believes in Jesus teachings.

Jesus isnt setting each against his own, He knows mans heart and again, what I just said above.

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Which people are you talking about in today's society? Some of Jesus' teachings are fine, just not really original.

So if they don't believe in Jesus, then they aren't your real family?
That's convenient.

Kitty Chan said:


(theives and robbers was Iacchuss)

Families dont get along?? Siblings cant even agree on proper distribution of the back seat of a car on a trip. What if your sister decides to fall in love with a missionary, and they want to travel to africa to help in the Aids crisis? You are gonna see red, shes wasting her life with that guy following a myth.

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So now you know how I'll think and feel? I do think going to Africa to help with the AIDS crisis is a good thing. My sister is a bit young though, only 13.

Kitty Chan said:



People are turning on those who express a faith, why because those who profess a faith have admited they are wicked. Then when my brother hears that, he reflects it back to himself and assumes that I now am a goody goody.

Therefore my brother assumes he must be so wicked, he pays his taxes and lives a generally good life, and does not agree. So he gets mad at me because he feels "judged" by me.

When I was Never judging him. The conviction of his own wickedness is judging him, He knows this in the back of his heart but what to do with it?? He has a solution, do what I did by admiting it or ignoring it.

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But did your brother actually tell you this or are you projecting your feelings onto him?

Maybe he doesn't like for you to tell him that he is wicked when he is not.

And what does he do that is so wicked?

Kitty Chan said:


Humbleness is a forgotton trait, if one cannot be humble, one will never see that they are not fantastic in their own sight. Being totally honest with oneself.

Who has not lied at least once? maybe gotten mad at someone for personal gain? Looked at another while your signaficant other is elsewhere or even beside you? Cheated just a bit, made a story just a little better for drama?

When people are confronted with these things the first thought is not to spring to humbleness, even christians one has to work at it.
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So it is more wicked to have these petty foibles than to turn your back on your own family?

Kitty Chan said:


This is what Jesus is getting at when He states that He knows the hearts of men. And He is explaining the results of speaking to the people to his apostles and how self examination is the hardest thing for people to accept
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Have you truly examined yourself? Have you really looked at your religion? Have you really took the beam from your own eye before trying to remove the mote from your brother's?


Kitty Chan said:



Yes, cult leaders that take up the false position of being christ do say such things. They think they are Jesus. But tell me would one of them leave their position of importance? Then travel to another country and take the sentenace for its prisoners in the jail? Get beaten and die a excoriating death to be Jesus? Not a chance they would even leave their position of importance.

They claim to be Jesus and may even appear to be the best thing since sliced bread but, what do they do??? for anyone. What do they truly give of themselves?

They tell you to cut yourself off from your friends,

Jesus said your friends will hate having to face themselves so the friends and family will cut you off


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Jesus was sentenced, was he? He got no more than thousands suffered under Roman rule. His suffering doesn't make him special. In fact didn't Jesus cut his suffering short by dying quickly?

Family and friends turn away because they see no hope for the new cultist as well.
 
Kitty my dear, you are completely missing the concept of secular ethics.

I left my (atheist) home at 18 to work in orphanages in eastern europe. Plenty of AIDS about, if that mattered.

My atheist family had nothing pride for me (an atheist). The irony was, I was working for a christian organisation in a church led project. Funnily enough, they saw the religion thing as second place to the huminatarian work. A prioritisation I have continued to respect to this day.
 
Iacchus said:
Or, you could just hire a good lawyer and try to get out on a technicality I suppose. ;)

You seem to retreat to really bad humor. I'd suggest either staying on topic or getting some better jokes. ;)
 
Iacchus said:
I think the problem here is that people tend to live vicariously through one another, and develop alliances in this respect, much like the "sinners and publicans" (instead of thieves and robbers) in the verses I quoted. So, once a person comes up with an original idea, and begins to think freely, as a person should, it's very apt to destroy that alliance which, of course is based upon dependency (rather than independence). Matter of fact whole societies are based upon this kind of dependency which, is what we call maintaining the status quo.

So you think that loving your family is something bad? You should break off with your family to run off with some cult leader?
 
Also Kitty,

I'm an atheist. My mother is a Christian. We get along fine.

In earlier posts, you described your brother as thinking that you are a goody-goody. Could it be that after your "enlightenment" you told him that he was a terrible sinner even though his "sins" weren't that terrible?
 
Demarker chan

You asked Iaccahus about what Jesus meant by dividing and bring a sword in Matthew

I answered what I thought and included another opinion for some measure

You insisted that you didn’t want to hear Mr Henrys opinion but mine, (I have a feeling you think I probably do not have one of my own), however, I had already stated it.

So I re-answered your question as to what points like the sword and dividing a family meant.

Let’s be clear here DO NOT read subtle hints in my examples of what families do to each other, my brother and I are just fine (I have never told him what you imagine, in fact it really has not been discussed in so many words. There is an interesting thing that happened about us I could tell you). We are fine JUST like you and your mom are fine. That’s not the point of what I said, those are merely distractions.

Read what I said again and don’t try to apply it to yourself or me. If there was a million dollar challenge to prove families dont get along it would have been broke in the first 3 hours. And before you get the notion that I say all families fight all the time, no they don’t.

And Benguin Chan as well, I notice you both noticed the part about the sister going to Africa for Aids but both did not comment on that her motivation was this guy and his myth God. If you think it’s a myth god and were honest with yourself you would not approve because lets see she has taken out her brain and tossed it aside by believing.

So, once again what I posted is EXAMPLES for discussion, they should be reread in that manner, then go from there.

:)

Originally posted by dmarker
I do understand what Jesus was saying; and he said it clearly.

Matthew 10:34
Think not that I am come to send peace on earth: I came not to send peace, but a sword.

A sword is a weapon of war. A sword is used to kill other humans and has never been used for other purposes.

Did Jesus ever carry a sword, When the soldiers ear was cut off did Jesus not put the ear back on. When Jesus cleared the Temple did He use a sword? When He was beat before going to die on the cross, did He resist, did He even say much? As a Lamb to slaughter.

Did Jesus speak in examples and parables, this statement is exactly that, Hes speaking of when your Dad hears you want to be a christian and hes thinks christians are girly men whimps and disowns you. Hes referring to that Muslim woman I spoke of whos husband will take away the children and leave her if she admits it.

Jesus refers to a sword because it will feel like your father has killed you when he withdrawns himself from you never to talk to you again and in fact maybe will speak against you to all you both know.

As people are so violently opposed to the teachings of Jesus, then they will turn that venum back on the one that believes in Jesus teachings.


10:35
For I am come to set a man at variance against his father, and the daughter against her mother, and the daughter in law against her mother in law.

He has come to set family members on one another. I ask again, what kind of person would do such a thing?

Jesus isnt setting each against his own, He knows mans heart and again, what I just said above.

10:36
And a man's foes shall be they of his own household.

Jesus will make a man's family turn on him. Have these men done anything to deserve this? Don't give me anything about "thieves and robbers" or "the families don't get along".

(theives and robbers was Iacchuss)

Families dont get along?? Siblings cant even agree on proper distribution of the back seat of a car on a trip. What if your sister decides to fall in love with a missionary, and they want to travel to africa to help in the Aids crisis? You are gonna see red, shes wasting her life with that guy following a myth.

People are turning on those who express a faith, why because those who profess a faith have admited they are wicked. Then when my brother hears that, he reflects it back to himself and assumes that I now am a goody goody.

Therefore my brother assumes he must be so wicked, he pays his taxes and lives a generally good life, and does not agree. So he gets mad at me because he feels "judged" by me.

When I was Never judging him. The conviction of his own wickedness is judging him, He knows this in the back of his heart but what to do with it?? He has a solution, do what I did by admiting it or ignoring it.

Humbleness is a forgotton trait, if one cannot be humble, one will never see that they are not fantastic in their own sight. Being totally honest with oneself.

Who has not lied at least once? maybe gotten mad at someone for personal gain? Looked at another while your signaficant other is elsewhere or even beside you? Cheated just a bit, made a story just a little better for drama?

When people are confronted with these things the first thought is not to spring to humbleness, even christians one has to work at it.

This is what Jesus is getting at when He states that He knows the hearts of men. And He is explaining the results of speaking to the people to his apostles and how self examination is the hardest thing for people to accept


10:37
He that loveth father or mother more than me is not worthy of me: and he that loveth son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me.

This really reminds me of "cult" thinking where the leader expects the members of the cult to give up close relatives to follow him.



Yes, cult leaders that take up the false position of being christ do say such things. They think they are Jesus. But tell me would one of them leave their position of importance? Then travel to another country and take the sentenace for its prisoners in the jail? Get beaten and die a excoriating death to be Jesus? Not a chance they would even leave their position of importance.

They claim to be Jesus and may even appear to be the best thing since sliced bread but, what do they do??? for anyone. What do they truly give of themselves?

They tell you to cut yourself off from your friends,

Jesus said your friends will hate having to face themselves so the friends and family will cut you off

:)
 
First, dividing families is not a good thing. About the woman with the muslim husband, why did the missionaries put her in that position? Did they try to appeal to the husband and couldn't reach him so they gave a watered down version of the new testament to the wife in hopes that she would "sell" him on the benefits of Christianity? If that's what happened, this is unjust and immoral.

Second, I read the bible literally. No apologist is going to say that the words mean something different from what they actually say. Jesus came to divide families, he also placed more importance on himself than family. You assumed that the families weren't getting along before this. Petty bickering over the place where you squeeze the toothpaste doesn't count as a family divide. Jesus announced that he himself was going to be the wedge between family members.

Third, if my sister took up religion, I'd wish her all the best, even if she condemned my atheism. Because Jesus is just a made up person and a made up person will never drive a wedge into my family.

And it is your own words that gave me that idea about you and your brother.



Kitty Chan said:
Demarker chan

You asked Iaccahus about what Jesus meant by dividing and bring a sword in Matthew

I answered what I thought and included another opinion for some measure

You insisted that you didn’t want to hear Mr Henrys opinion but mine, (I have a feeling you think I probably do not have one of my own), however, I had already stated it.

So I re-answered your question as to what points like the sword and dividing a family meant.

Let’s be clear here DO NOT read subtle hints in my examples of what families do to each other, my brother and I are just fine (I have never told him what you imagine, in fact it really has not been discussed in so many words. There is an interesting thing that happened about us I could tell you). We are fine JUST like you and your mom are fine. That’s not the point of what I said, those are merely distractions.

Read what I said again and don’t try to apply it to yourself or me. If there was a million dollar challenge to prove families dont get along it would have been broke in the first 3 hours. And before you get the notion that I say all families fight all the time, no they don’t.

And Benguin Chan as well, I notice you both noticed the part about the sister going to Africa for Aids but both did not comment on that her motivation was this guy and his myth God. If you think it’s a myth god and were honest with yourself you would not approve because lets see she has taken out her brain and tossed it aside by believing.

So, once again what I posted is EXAMPLES for discussion, they should be reread in that manner, then go from there.

:)

Originally posted by dmarker
I do understand what Jesus was saying; and he said it clearly.

Matthew 10:34
Think not that I am come to send peace on earth: I came not to send peace, but a sword.

A sword is a weapon of war. A sword is used to kill other humans and has never been used for other purposes.

Did Jesus ever carry a sword, When the soldiers ear was cut off did Jesus not put the ear back on. When Jesus cleared the Temple did He use a sword? When He was beat before going to die on the cross, did He resist, did He even say much? As a Lamb to slaughter.

Did Jesus speak in examples and parables, this statement is exactly that, Hes speaking of when your Dad hears you want to be a christian and hes thinks christians are girly men whimps and disowns you. Hes referring to that Muslim woman I spoke of whos husband will take away the children and leave her if she admits it.

Jesus refers to a sword because it will feel like your father has killed you when he withdrawns himself from you never to talk to you again and in fact maybe will speak against you to all you both know.

As people are so violently opposed to the teachings of Jesus, then they will turn that venum back on the one that believes in Jesus teachings.


10:35
For I am come to set a man at variance against his father, and the daughter against her mother, and the daughter in law against her mother in law.

He has come to set family members on one another. I ask again, what kind of person would do such a thing?

Jesus isnt setting each against his own, He knows mans heart and again, what I just said above.

10:36
And a man's foes shall be they of his own household.

Jesus will make a man's family turn on him. Have these men done anything to deserve this? Don't give me anything about "thieves and robbers" or "the families don't get along".

(theives and robbers was Iacchuss)

Families dont get along?? Siblings cant even agree on proper distribution of the back seat of a car on a trip. What if your sister decides to fall in love with a missionary, and they want to travel to africa to help in the Aids crisis? You are gonna see red, shes wasting her life with that guy following a myth.

People are turning on those who express a faith, why because those who profess a faith have admited they are wicked. Then when my brother hears that, he reflects it back to himself and assumes that I now am a goody goody.

Therefore my brother assumes he must be so wicked, he pays his taxes and lives a generally good life, and does not agree. So he gets mad at me because he feels "judged" by me.

When I was Never judging him. The conviction of his own wickedness is judging him, He knows this in the back of his heart but what to do with it?? He has a solution, do what I did by admiting it or ignoring it.

Humbleness is a forgotton trait, if one cannot be humble, one will never see that they are not fantastic in their own sight. Being totally honest with oneself.

Who has not lied at least once? maybe gotten mad at someone for personal gain? Looked at another while your signaficant other is elsewhere or even beside you? Cheated just a bit, made a story just a little better for drama?

When people are confronted with these things the first thought is not to spring to humbleness, even christians one has to work at it.

This is what Jesus is getting at when He states that He knows the hearts of men. And He is explaining the results of speaking to the people to his apostles and how self examination is the hardest thing for people to accept


10:37
He that loveth father or mother more than me is not worthy of me: and he that loveth son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me.

This really reminds me of "cult" thinking where the leader expects the members of the cult to give up close relatives to follow him.



Yes, cult leaders that take up the false position of being christ do say such things. They think they are Jesus. But tell me would one of them leave their position of importance? Then travel to another country and take the sentenace for its prisoners in the jail? Get beaten and die a excoriating death to be Jesus? Not a chance they would even leave their position of importance.

They claim to be Jesus and may even appear to be the best thing since sliced bread but, what do they do??? for anyone. What do they truly give of themselves?

They tell you to cut yourself off from your friends,

Jesus said your friends will hate having to face themselves so the friends and family will cut you off

:)
 
The problem is called vested interest. And, when you start mixing politics with ethics (even at the family level) typically a clash will ensue.
 
And Benguin Chan as well, I notice you both noticed the part about the sister going to Africa for Aids but both did not comment on that her motivation was this guy and his myth God. If you think it’s a myth god and were honest with yourself you would not approve because lets see she has taken out her brain and tossed it aside by believing.

Incorrect in my case. I said I was working for a christian organisation. I respected my colleagues even if I didn't understand their superstitions. I actually envied the strength and comfort they could gain from looking to their god and bible, whilst I endlessly wrestled with the flaws of the human condition.

Fact was their faith had brought them to the same place that my own ethics had.

I would have major concerns about cultism, as should anyone with a brain. If the hypothetical sister had simply fallen for the man, his vision and he (AFAIK) is someone who will respect her support her why should I not approve.

Yes I struggle to understand the superstitious side of christianity, but I've only respect for those who find it inspires them to humanitarian acts.

And, for that matter, only contempt for those who find it drives them to acts of hatred and discrimination.
 
Remember I said I wasnt speaking about any of us specifically, I was quite clear about that. So, why would you respond back with more of it???? Fine you thought my words were reflecting my family or yours, they are not settled now? I am sorry.

In the future I will put disclaimers on my examples to clear up confusion.

:)

btw what makes you think a missionary talked to the muslim woman and that shes "over there" and the missionary did something wrong by speaking to her and the husband, assumptions . . . :(

Now, dont read it from the personal perspective of your or my family and think of the world and what happens in it.

If one looks at Matthew in the WHOLE a lot more is being said than the one part about the family.

This is how the bible gets mixed up by taking out parts and not looking at the whole. Would you read 1 paragraph of 1 chapter of a medical manual to know about the human body?

:)

Also,

Benguin its wonderful you did what you did, I am very glad you did and Im sure the experience was fantastic. I am in no way shape or form calling down what you said in my example.

Unfortunetely, it hit a cord with you and the sister idea. Im sorry that happened.

Hows this? There is a christian woman who is studying to be a doctor. Her athiest friend is so supportive of her being a doctor. Problem is when she graduates she will go and be a medical missionary. The athiest friend is picked at her and cannot understand why she would "waste" her life doing such a thing. Because the reason shes going is to SERVE GOD and thats a waste.

Name and identity have been withheld to protect my friends.
 
Kitty Chan said:
Benguin its wonderful you did what you did, I am very glad you did and Im sure the experience was fantastic.
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Unfortunetely, it hit a cord with you and the sister idea. Im sorry that happened.


Don't worry, reading back I'm not sure why it needled me. I find the constant assertion that 'atheists cannot do good' offensive, though you did not say that. Nor am I arrogant enough to presume what I did necessarily qualifies. I tried my hardest and was immensily challenged!


Hows this? There is a christian woman who is studying to be a doctor. Her athiest friend is so supportive of her being a doctor. Problem is when she graduates she will go and be a medical missionary. The athiest friend is picked at her and cannot understand why she would "waste" her life doing such a thing. Because the reason shes going is to SERVE GOD and thats a waste.

Name and identity have been withheld to protect my friends.

I wish I could understand, as I fully respect even missionaries who travel with only the intent of spreading their word. I maybe don't agree, but I do respect them. Perhaps assuming that because I'm an atheist means I share the views of other atheists is not correct?

I mean surely you know of other christians who do not have humanitarian interests? I must say I have been shocked by the inethical attitudes of some christians I have met. I don't assume you are all like that, but I know I can't assume anything based on religious affiliation alone.

If she's going to work in a medical missionary I can't personally see what the relevance of her motives are, as long as they are not malicious towards her patients. I have been ridiculed by people for what I did, because it was voluntary and I stood to gain nothing. Well it was voluntary, but I've never really worked out how to explain what I gained to people who can't see it.

Wish your friend my very best secular luck, I'd love to know where she's going ... I suspect I can guess the country. PM me, if you wish, I might be able to offer her insider guidance!
 
Kitty Chan said:
Remember I said I wasnt speaking about any of us specifically, I was quite clear about that. So, why would you respond back with more of it???? Fine you thought my words were reflecting my family or yours, they are not settled now? I am sorry.

In the future I will put disclaimers on my examples to clear up confusion.

:)

btw what makes you think a missionary talked to the muslim woman and that shes "over there" and the missionary did something wrong by speaking to her and the husband, assumptions . . . :(


Your first example was about my sister, kitty.

Oh, Kitty Chan. Why do you think that missionary work just goes on overseas? And every Christian who "witnesses" to a non Christian is a missionary, no matter what they call themselves. Who talked to her about Christianity? Considering what would happen if the wife converted and the husband did not, once the husband said no then the missionary should not have approached the wife. But that didn't stop our determined Christian from causing this poor woman all kinds of grief, did it?

Tell the truth, Kitty, should this woman leave her husband and her children to follow Jesus?
 
dmarker said:
Your first example was about my sister, kitty.

Oh, Kitty Chan. Why do you think that missionary work just goes on overseas? And every Christian who "witnesses" to a non Christian is a missionary, no matter what they call themselves. Who talked to her about Christianity? Considering what would happen if the wife converted and the husband did not, once the husband said no then the missionary should not have approached the wife. But that didn't stop our determined Christian from causing this poor woman all kinds of grief, did it?

Tell the truth, Kitty, should this woman leave her husband and her children to follow Jesus?

You know I have covered the part about the examples and using a sister as an example. and you still bring it up :confused: if you had a sister how would I know it was an example.

You said the muslim woman was overseas not me. And to tell you her husband does not know shes accepted Christ. No one pushed her to know Him. She is silent because her husband will leave her and take the kids and the family would also leave her. So she talks online to others which is all she can do. There is NO discussion in her family because it would not happen.

Does that clear it up about her for you? If they fiind out that she believes they will kick her out plain and simple, no discussion. What will she do in the future, we cannot know. Its a pickle to say the least. The point is look at that the family would cast her aside if she believes in Christ.

No understanding like your mother offers you, Id say shes a good woman your mom.
 
Benguin said:
Don't worry, reading back I'm not sure why it needled me. I find the constant assertion that 'atheists cannot do good' offensive, though you did not say that. Nor am I arrogant enough to presume what I did necessarily qualifies. I tried my hardest and was immensily challenged!

I wish I could understand, as I fully respect even missionaries who travel with only the intent of spreading their word. I maybe don't agree, but I do respect them. Perhaps assuming that because I'm an atheist means I share the views of other atheists is not correct?

I mean surely you know of other christians who do not have humanitarian interests? I must say I have been shocked by the inethical attitudes of some christians I have met. I don't assume you are all like that, but I know I can't assume anything based on religious affiliation alone.

If she's going to work in a medical missionary I can't personally see what the relevance of her motives are, as long as they are not malicious towards her patients. I have been ridiculed by people for what I did, because it was voluntary and I stood to gain nothing. Well it was voluntary, but I've never really worked out how to explain what I gained to people who can't see it.

Wish your friend my very best secular luck, I'd love to know where she's going ... I suspect I can guess the country. PM me, if you wish, I might be able to offer her insider guidance!

I will not say that because a person is a atheist they cannot be good. And when I said the atheist view of my one friend I guess that lumped you a bit and I stand corrected.

As for shocked by attitudes of some christians sigh! I think people generally miss the main points of what Jesus taught in favor of ones that serve them or make it look like they are doing more than they are. I guess to be fair that attitude is in all people no matter what they believe, its a hard habit to break.

Thats why I thought of my sig labels truly bug me. The girl who is studying to be a christian doctor I know through my atheist friend. Its been busy for me lately and I havnt had a chance to go out but I will ask how its going. Maybe a distinction is the "atheist" friend is great to be with but she has a underlying chip on the shoulder going on.

I bring it up because Im thinking this chip is not exclusive to christians or atheists or whoever and maybe thats the difference you are alluding to in people. Maybe you can respect them because they try to keep that stuff in order and Im guessing you all have been in stressful conditions.

Sorry Im wandering my favorite topic is things linking. There was a show that I cant seem to find it was James Burke he went through how timelines in science and invention were not straight but overlapped and wound around each other.

ah well its late and 5 comes early :)
 
Kitty Chan said:
You know I have covered the part about the examples and using a sister as an example. and you still bring it up :confused: if you had a sister how would I know it was an example.

You said the muslim woman was overseas not me. And to tell you her husband does not know shes accepted Christ. No one pushed her to know Him. She is silent because her husband will leave her and take the kids and the family would also leave her. So she talks online to others which is all she can do. There is NO discussion in her family because it would not happen.

Does that clear it up about her for you? If they fiind out that she believes they will kick her out plain and simple, no discussion. What will she do in the future, we cannot know. Its a pickle to say the least. The point is look at that the family would cast her aside if she believes in Christ.

No understanding like your mother offers you, Id say shes a good woman your mom.

Where did I say the muslim woman was overseas? And did I say pushed? I asked who converted her.

And her family is likely to feel that she cast them aside first. Have you tried to look at things from another point of view?
 

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