It amuses that conservatives have adopted this notion that being a selfish ass is "manly."
Self-sacrifice is traditionally the virtue that represents a manly-man. If there's suffering to be done, let me take it on because I'm *********** macho and I can handle it.
John Wayne steps in to engage in the gun battle to save someone from having to go through it. When it's cold, a manly man passes the blanket to the children because he can endure. When food is short, it goes to the pregnant woman.
It what perverse universe are the tough guys the one's who cravenly cling to their creature comforts while others suffer?
I think that stereotype can be perceived from many different viewpoints. Is it self-sacrifice? Or is it taking responsibility for personal failings?
In any case, I don't think that "being a manly-man" is the ideology behind conservative thinking.
Please. There's nothing more pathetic than listening to million and billionaires whine about their tax rate when people in this country don't have health care, homes, and adequate nutrition.
This kind of thinking is perceived as "jealousy" or "laziness." The idea being that those who are needy are needy because they don't want to work hard and want others to provide for them. "Hey, the rich have enough money; it's not fair that they hoard it all!"
Good or bad all depends on your personal viewpoint. In the US, the prevailing viewpoint has always been to pull yourself up by the bootstraps; i.e., take personal responsibility for your success or failure. Welfare states have been seen as very bad things.
For example, I grew up thinking some things about the Soviet Union, based on family talks and media coverage, that I don't even know how true some of it was. The gist of it was this: The USSR took control of all industries and tried to provide everything to everyone. They controlled what career you were going to have, how much food you got, where you lived . . . all in the name of equality and doing what was best for the society as a whole. But humans are humans and it was corrupt; those in power lived better than the regular people. When it failed, it was seen as, "See! Socialism cannot work!"
Now you have our own government slowly taking over more and more of our personal lives. Common Core, Single-Payer, paid-for college, income equality . . . it all
feels like Socialism and we know Socialism can't work because the USSR failed and countries like Greece are failing. The Bootstrap philosophy is what "Made America Great."
Obviously, I'm oversimplifying here, but I don't think that it's too far away from the way a lot of Americans feel -especially the successful ones. So that's basically where the "straw man" comes from.