Hi everyone, I am a newbie but I wanted to say a couple of things.
Paragraphs are useful......lol
Here in England when someone's obituary is printed there is rarely any mention of the family left behind except if they are famous/rich
not so, love, local papers have loads of 'em. It's down to the relatives, not fame or riches.
My mum wasn't rich or famous, she got an obit, cost a tenner in the local rag...
and if fact it's not that common to post obits if Lisa would not get much info from folk in England.
not sure that follows,, mediums on shows do try to get info, you need to do some learning.
Saying that however I do not believe that Lisa in genuine I have seen the real thing and Lisa is far from that.
Who?
that is the qustion on everyone's lips here probably.lol
One medium I knew asked you to give a donation to a local hospice as she said her gift was God given and she was not to make money from it! I have known a few who did similar - they just wanted to give reassurance.
so you pay up, and feel as if yougot "somethin for something" but the medium isnt responsible for being a fraud because she "didn't charge".
Nice get out.......and entirely underhanded and dishonest, you just weren't awake that day where you?
Are you ever?
Ater my Dad passed over I left it three months or so and I went to see a medium (who did not charge) she said that I was married - I do not wear a ring -
50% chance of being right is an easy guess.
that my Dad was watching over me
and she knew his name, NI Number, and inside leg measurement, yeah right.......obviously as you need a dad to get born (so far!)
everyone has one....lolol
and that he had a message for me.
If he can speak to a complete stranger and nonrelative he doesn't know, how come you aren't on that list?
Mediums
always seem to "have a message". And its always about something you could fit into almost any persons life history
somewhere....oh dear , oh dear, .....
My Dad said he was so very sorry for having mis-judged me and he knew the truth of what had happened and he wanted me to forgive my Mum.
Um no he didn't,
he isn't alive to do so. Dead is dead, there's no afterlife. The medium was using your (un evidence based) belief to gain an advantage over you because you turned up at the door.
Next time please think.
This came out of the blue. Not even my husband knew what had happened - it was between my Dad, my Mum and myself.
What came out of the blue?
A load of generalisations wheeled out parrot fashion to a gullible supportive audience.
You gave that "donation to the charity" directly I expect?
Or did the medium take it "on your behalf"
When I went to my Mum's I told her and at first she pretended not to know what I was talking about.
Thats your clue.......how come she had to rake around to
make it fit retroactively.........think about that a lot.
Then she said 'well Dad must be telling me off because I have lost my wedding ring'.
so the medium didn't mention your mum losing the ring?
Um, why not? IF your dad was alive, surely he would not have your mum guessing what he meant, if was not alive, the medium gives you some generalisations, and you fit them in, and say to everyone how great she was, which boosts her trade.
In fact she told you nothing.
It was a long time before I felt complete forgiveness to my Mum as it had caused a distance between myself and my Dad but a few months later I felt a sense of peace and knew that I had forgiven my Mum.
what ? after your dad is dead?
how much distance do you want, and, how nearer is nearer? 200yds?
You say you've forgiven you mum
what for again? for losing a ring that she found again?
What has it got to do with you? Nothing.
So all the medium has done so far is caused a rift between your mum and you, over months, and over something that has
nothing to do with what she told you.....
Fat City, gal. Of course you can't get a refund either lolol..
She phoned me later that night and said she had found her ring in the garden under some bushes!
So?
The medium only knew my first name - I did not pay her - she lived in a different area from me.
Nope
a/ she knows you have a dad (we all do)
b/ she knows you'll swallow her line, as you are paying , just not her with money, just time.
c/ she knows you'll retrofit it all in place, and if not, you won't be back. these mediums never record their failures.
There are genuine mediums out there but they do not shout their talent and they do not seek to make money for themselves.
Rubbish. You might look a little harder.
There are no real mediums out there, and most of 'em need money. Are you one?
People like Lisa make me sad because they take advantage of people grief.
And you let one take adavantage of your grief, are you sad for her too, or just feeling a little stupid.?
