Actually, it was more of a joke with respect to the embedded link. Wow, I didn't think I'd have to explain it. But there is a loose point attached.
I didn't even realize it was an embedded link. I just thought you italicized and underlined the word.
Some people suggested the word dyke should not be used as it is offensive to a certain group of people. Yet the word they suggested was offensive to another group of people. So why is it better to offend the latter group but not the former?
The point following from this, of course, is the absurdity of trying not to offend everybody. It just can't be done. At some point, you'll offend someone, no matter how careful you are.
So this justifies, say, throwing around the word "faggot" and "******" because other words will offend someone somewhere? Hey, why bother to broaden the vocabulary, it just leads to bad things anyways.
I'm glad you saw fit to remove the bundle of sticks analogy (which I just caught before your edit). Unless the bundle of sticks were offended by it (or we were worried about offending bundles of sticks), your analogy was utterly irrelevant to the point at hand.
Considering your point, all I have to do is to show one person upset at the word "gay" or "homosexual", and that validates the use of the word. After all, someone might be offended by the word "gay" or "homosexual", so let's just call them all faggots and be done with it. And let's not mention people that might be offended by the terms African American, or black, or whatever else... so let's just call all them blackies ******, right?
I'm always up for a challenge. You really want to go this way?
If you're still struggling with the whole humour thing, feel free to be further offended by Penn and Teller's take on it
here.
They're cute entertainers, but little else. Especially how funny they are throwing around the term "first amendment". The First Amendment does not protect you from consequences of your words, it merely protects you from the government directly attempting to control what you can and cannot say (and even then, there are exceptions to this, as mentioned earlier).
If I go into a black person's house and call him a "******", or suggest that he should be eatin' that dang fried chicken, why should I expect to receive a favorable reaction?