As a small time inventor myself, I have had many people, mostly in construction trades, tell me that something I was suggesting couldn't be done. If it what something I cared much about, I would go ahead and build it. After that, when they could see it; touch it; examine it...the debate was over. Some admiration was often expressed.
I can't imagine the frustration of having some of them continue to argue against the item and its concept after the fact.
Hence, I am empathetic to the occasional short fuses here, especially considering how long it has gone on. Still, I wish it would stop, and we could get back to some fascinating physics.
I'm not an inventor, but I work with them every day so I can certainly empathize with what you are saying here.
I have had several clients approach businesses with ideas that could improve their products only to be turned away with a curt "that won't work." Through some perseverance several have proven both the science and marketability of those ideas and often sold them to the very people who rejected them.
I have also seen more than my share of PM or over-unity ideas and had to find ways to avoid being involved. I feel I have a good eye for this sort of thing and yet the BB was very eye opening. I love counter-intuitive ideas and it still took an embarrassingly long time to finally grasp.