I’ve opined elsewhere that a lot of latter-day anti-Americanism started in America itself, during Viet Nam. Certainly the modern American acceptance of anti-Americanism – a remarkable bowing of the head under abuse – dates from that period.
Yes, I think you could be right. Vietnam was an incredible moment in the history of democratic foreign policy. For the first time a population spoke openly against war, and for the first time a nation was incapable of waging a war because the people didn't support it.
Attitudes in the U.S. are changing, to be sure. After September 11, it strains American patience to be always and forever slanged by people who may have no familiarity at all with American desires. It’s long been the case that Americans wish to be not just liked, but loved. Beware the wrath of a nation scorned.*
I'm glad your attitude is changing.

Once on a film job I met an American guy who is a bear wrangler for films and television etc. He surprised me, because he was the first genuine pleasant quietly patriotic American I had ever met. I instantly had great respect for him. As did the other members of the crew, which is a rare thing because the NZ film industry is rabidly anti-American.
(Even though we want Americans to bring all their films here)
The reason this guy was so unique is I had only ever met two types of Americans.
The first type was rabidly anti America. We'll call them the New York student, because one I knew well was from New York, and a student. From the moment they first open their mouths, they make a concerted effort to make it clear they hate the current President, they hate American culture, they hate American foreign policy, they hate guns, they hate American accents...
On it goes.
I found it unfathomable that someone could live in a country they so completely detest. I also found it incredible that someone could have no love whatsoever for a nation that had clearly provided them a free and successful life (poor Americans simply cannot afford to be in New Zealand telling me how crappy their country is).
The second type goes on the offensive. Let's call them the Miami tourist, because every American tourist from Miami seems to be like this. They anticipate your anti-Americanism, and so they come out all guns blazing, star spangled banner waving, cowboy boots, and a holstered six-shooter. Nothing is as good as American. No one could ever be as good as an American. They're aggressive and antagonistic.
This, until I met this proud but humble bear wrangler, was all I knew of Americans.
I only hope most Americans are more like the bear wrangler and less like the New York student or the Miami tourist.
As long as we’re quibbling minorly, I wonder: Is the U.S. really a young country? Few nations have operated so long under the same constitution. In terms of date of foundation, Italy is considerably younger – younger than New Zealand too, which is itself getting to be a country with a long-uninterrupted history.
I think there's two ways of looking at it. On the one hand there's how old the current government system is. But on the other hand, there's the national identity. The United Kingdom, in its current form, is only 200 years old, yet the British, to varying degrees, trace their national identity back much much further.
The governing body of Rome still uses SPQR as its identifying symbol. The revitalised Reichstag building bears the same Eagle motif that Germanic tribes took from the Romans, along with the name "Kaiser".
If you take New Zealand, we can only trace back our national identity 160 years, and indeed many European and Middle-eastern nations had sophisticated civilisations long before humans ever stepped foot on New Zealand. New Zealand did not become a sovereign nation until 1947, and it was not until 1983 that the Letters Patent first referred to New Zealand as an independent Realm.
*You’re wrong about one thing: you lot are NOT at our mercy. The 2 percent of Americans who know where New Zealand is and don’t think it’s a peninsula of the West Island love you sincerely. I for one wouldn’t wake you from the Dream of Maui for any rewards the world holds.
I have no doubt your correct, but the reality is all small countries are totally at the mercy of large countries. And I do not mean just the USA.
Firstly, we are a trading nation. Without the trade markets to China, Australia and the USA, we would shrivel up and die. Secondly, our economy is chained to the economy of larger countries.
There's the old saying "When the USA sneezes, the world catches a cold." The second part of that saying is "And small countries get pneumonia".
Being at the mercy of larger nations isn't automatically bad, of course. Most of you have prospered, and as a result we have to. And most of you have treated us very well.
But the common bond of human kind that was created in the wake of WW2 is failing. The ideals are being forgotten in the daily grind of surviving from day to day.
The "united nations" was an idea that outlasted the previous one, but ideals don't last forever. Soon it will be back to business as usual. And the smaller nations will just have to hope no one treads on us.
-Gumboot