Shadowdweller
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TBH, the fact that all too much of the public outrage seems to be ignoring the nursing home issues while calling this sort of behavior "sexual assault" or "sexual harassment" seriously disgusts me. At least unless, unbeknownst to myself, Cuomo continued to repeat this behavior toward individuals who had already expressed disinterest or disgust. Or tried this in some hitherto unknown extreme context, such as broaching the subject of someone's sex life while they are requesting vital aid/assistance. The fact of the matter is that standards of propriety are highly variable in this country; and highly subjective.As for the workplace accusations and Governor Cuomo, as I said, I'm not sure of the details of the allegations. I do think that sexual harassment in the workplace is a problem, but I don't subscribe to the theory that every sexual advance is an offense, even if there's some sort of power imbalance involved. Unwanted sexual advances are an offense, but how do you know they are unwanted the first time you make an advance?
Speaking as a former sexual assault victim.