I'm sorry if this really happened to you?
ounds like not the real deal or Satan had some real strongholds on Him? Could it be that you both provoked eachother to anger? It can be ugly to see what both people might have done to make that situation become out of control. I have a hard time thinking marital problems are one sided? Did you ever hit Him?
I think the big factor here is that even if He was or is wrong, you need to forgive him. Have you done that? You won't heal from that kind of hurt unless you do. I hope you are doing OK now. I would also hope you wouldn't blame God for what your ex-husband did to you!
In this thread I essentially stated my belief that Kurious Kathy was innocent by reason of insanity...
I would like to rescind that statement.
KK, IMHO, you are in fact a petty bigot. A troglodyte without an ounce of true compassion or sympathy. No amount of sugarcoating can hide the vindictive, deliberate acidity of your diatribes and judgements.
If your ilk turn out to be right, (supremely doubtful, but for the sake of argument I'll allow the possibility) then I guess I'm going to hell and you're going to heaven... I can think of no greater paradise than to be separated from you and your kith and kin for all eternity.