Speaking for myself:
Reading and posting on JREF is a way of sort of vindicating myself. A way to wash off the pooh. After being a part of Bf proponent sites wide-eyed and bushy-tailed and eager to hear all about this elusive animal but then slowly realizing you are being scammed, lied to, silenced...feeling like you’ve been entrenched in some sort of cult experience that tried to rob you of your independence and thinking skills and rationality and much more.
Some of us may get over the need to talk it out rather quickly and move on. Others of us still angry and creeped out by our experience on the other side, need to still assure ourselves. Getting suckered is like being robbed or violated in some way. And here we find what we need: the truth, real science, rational thinking, etc. Not to sound too weird, but it is comforting and heals the wounds. Again, not to be too weird, but my experience really shook my faith in man.
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