joesixpack
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Fine, I'll bite. What exactly am I "profoundly ignorant" about? That people can be effected by their parents? At a point, (I would say 27 is hell and gone from that point) we have to hold people accountable for their actions.
Maybe we disagree about holding people with crazy parents accountable for their actions, but I fail to see how this makes me "profoundly ignorant".
By the time you were 27 years old I suspect that you'd lived apart from your family for a number years, and that you would have formed close and healthy relationships with a greater circle of people than your own extended family, which is something these two women had not been able to do. Hell, you'd probably done this by 21. Why? Because your parents didn't pathologically train you to be part of a cultish and insular tribe. Instead they raised you to be independent.
Very few thoughts come out of a persons mind that weren't put in there in the first place. Being exposed to differing views and ideas as you (and most people) were, you have the luxury of being able to make more independent choices. You also have the luxury of knowing that, barring outrageous behavior, you are not likely to lose your entire social support for taking a specific philosophical or ontological viewpoint.
Megan and Grace have never had that assurance.
I assume that your comment "Well that line starts five million miles away to the left... " was meant to disparage the actual science that demonstrates the materialist origin of human behavior as "Marxist claptrap". You should be made aware of a few facts. Human beings have emotional needs that are based on instincts meant to satisfy material needs. They struggle to meet these needs in a variety of ways and the ways in which they do so has almost everything to do with skills that they are given very early in life and nothing to do with Idealist fantasies about "character" and "morality".
And welcoming the offenders with open arms brings them comfort?
This is a false dichotomy.
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