Then you’ll also have noted where I said Boy Scouts was not for everyone? Because I did say that, and I fully understand that some people have had very bad experiences in Scouting for any number of reasons. Some people have had very bad experiences camping, but would I suggest that they go? Well, yeah, if it’s something you’re interested in, you should probably give it a shot. Just because there have been people who didn’t agree with the camping concept, doesn’t mean that you should curtail your enthusiasm for the idea.
The same holds here for Boy Scouts. If you’re not interested in allowing your son to pursue Boy Scouts, that’s completely understandable. But that’s not going to stop me from expressing the idea that some boys get a great deal from the experience, and that the organization, on the whole, is a good one.
You probably should review the Scout Oath then:
On my honor, I will do my best to do my duty to God an my country, and to obey the Scout Law. To help other people at all times, to keep myself physically strong, mentally awake, and morally straight. [emphasis added]
While I am certain your son is a fine, upstanding young man, just as both of mine are (though one hasn’t learned to stand, much less sit up, yet), I would be highly skeptical of him doing his duty to his country at all times. I would also be interested to know if he actually lends assistance to all people at all times, or if this cuts into his workout schedule at the gym while he attempts to keep himself “physically strong”. I’d be interested to know how he manages to be “mentally awake” during all hours of the day, especially with all that helping other people “at all times” and the previous mentioned gym schedule? Or does he find that, like most youth his age, the growing up, hormone changes, rewiring of his adolescent brain into its adult state, school schedule, extracurricular activities, etc., sometimes leave him run down? And what does he consider to be “morally straight”? Is this the same as what you consider to be morally straight, or is it slightly different? Which morally straight does he follow, and does he follow it at all times in all cases, or does he find that there are certain situations where he adapts his moral code to fit the circumstances?