Denise said:
To be honest, I am shocked that so many fellow forum members have no opinion on this. Yea or nay. Please speak up.
First, an opinion on PVS in general. In college I took an interest in medical ethics, and had several courses- my specialization in one course was PVS and euthanasia. I will not repost my lengthy papers, especially since I can't find it, and will probably now disagree with my thought process, but I recall arguing that in cases when
- a patient had a living will, clearly expressing her wishes not be kept alive in case of PVS
- doctors unanimously and unequivocly declared PVS
- there was no hope of recovery, medical procedure, etc
- patient was in such a state for some state of time (a few months)
- there was no overwhelming reason to contest the living will (guardians protesting, changed her mind, etc)
- then the patient should be euthanised gently, as removal of N&H is extrmely cruel and takes a long time and achieves the same result.
I remember arguing about it quite voiceferously. People said I was making doctors into killers- whereas I said they already are killers, except they make the death slower and harder for the family and loved ones. Anyway, that was my stance in general, but I reconsidered my position, as I believe there are too many buttons pushed with word "euthanasia" and too many dangers with its practice.
In this case, it seems to me from what I read it is not likely this woman will ever come out of the state she is in. I do not feel comfortable with invokation of religion, involvement of the state, and the animosity and mudslinging between the family members which it makes it very hard to know who to believe. However, given that this woman's death is entirely irreversible, that the husband moved on, as was perfectly right for him to do, that I do not think she had a living will, that her parents obviously love her and seem to have volunteered to pay for her care (and if they have not, I am certain there will be plenty of donations), it seems to me the compassionate, if perhaps not technically legal thing to do is let this one go. He can go on with his life, and let her family take care of her, can't he? Is there a downside to him? I mean I know he has the right as a guardian, but the people fighting for her obviously love her, and care for her, and will care for her for as long as they can. Technically, I think he is in the right, but it seems to me he should move on.
And yet another reminder for everyone to have living wills.