Rolfe
Adult human female
There might, might be a fair discussion to be had about whether or not the gender roles that transgender people to define how their internal gender identities are meaningfully distinct from traditional cisgender might come into conflict conceptually with the push in society to remove gender roles.
Without having the entire transgender discussion again... that's still where I'm at. I've always been 100% open and honest that without clear difference outside of either base biological difference or vague statistical bellcurving between the genders to fall back on the very base concept of transgenderism is hard for me to find a vein to hit with.
But that idea that any of that requires us to entertain even for a moment the idea that they are essentially a species of undercover perverts (and if Undercover Perverts has been a band name we have failed as a species and should be ashamed of ourselves) has to be entertained.
I didn't notice where anyone was suggesting you entertain that idea.
Women, and lesbians in particular, are trying to have precisely the discussion you outlined in your first paragraph (without the insulting term "cisgender" being a part of it). The basis of the problem is that such discussion is not being permitted by the trans activist lobby. Literally "there is no debate". This is precisely what has led to the current situation, and the shameful treatment of the lesbian group who tried to march at Pride with a banner saying that lesbians are female homosexuals and the penis is not a female organ.