What I find interesting is that it seems like nobody - not parents, not educators, not sociologists, not regulators, not lawmakers - have any ******* clue how to deal with bullies.
The entire world seems to agree that the only real response to bullying is to just close your eyes and hope it doesn't get too bad.
Slightly an aside, but three murdering psychos just happened to find each other in the same school? Sounds like they are not as rare as we often assume, and the bastards are everywhere. Maybe sitting near you right now. Maybe a few of them.
Also, 12k Euros for murdering a child? There's a bigger payout for a slip and fall in a commercial establishment in the States, paid out as a nuicance settlement to avoid the cost of litigation.
From childhood on, people learn what they can, and cannot, get away with. Boundaries and limits are explored, and consequences–if any & the severity–of their actions, are learned.
There's a range of bad actions; some bad actions are on a lesser-scale, and some on a grander-scale. But the issue is, there's
a lot of people who are mean, and/or cruel, and/or selfish. I don't know what that number is, or how to quantify how many, or what percentage, of the population is mean/cruel/selfish.
Some people develop problematic behaviors, and may relish whatever it is they get from their meanness, and/or cruelty, and/or selfishness.
Someone can inflict harm on an individual. Someone can inflict harm on many people. Some of the people who inflict harm can be one part, of any number of other people who form and aggregate of harmers. People who harm may be a family member, or someone in a position of trust, or power. They likely don't want to be found out, or held accountable. They (typically) desire and need to protect themselves from being caught, from being held accountable.
Don't look for abuse, or harm, to stop:
Some of the people in power might include those in the financial service industry, legal profession, law enforcement, or, ANY profession, service, or personal connection. They may be socially, industry-related, and/or politically connected.
Carla F. Bad
Carla F. Bad is a "readily memorized acronym that reminds investigators of just what to investigate when looking into someone’s background," wrote retired FBI supervisory special agent James A. Gagliano, CNN law enforcement analyst, and adjunct assistant professor at St. John’s University in Queens, New York. [1]
The acronym represents
character,
associates,
reputation,
loyalty,
ability,
finances,
bias,
alcohol and
drugs.
While James A. Gagliano's article mentions how investigators might look into someone's background, his article doesn't address (nor was it intended to address) the number of people who commit harm; either an individual (one-off) act, or multiple acts, of harm.
Daily news, word of mouth, and court cases, are some ways to see that there are a lot of people who harm others.
Source:
1. Gagliano, James A. "
If FBI investigated allegation against Kavanaugh, here's what it would do."
CNN.com. September 25, 2018. https: //www .cnn.com/2018/09/24/opinions/kavanaugh-fbi-investigation-process-gagliano/index.html Accessed 22 Feb 2021.