It's apparent from the way you dwell on it in your posts that the very idea of human spontaneous combustion causes you great distress.
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There's only one person here who can possibly figure out what it [the source of ignition] might have been. I think you may already know what it is, but you probably don't know that you know.
It would be ever so interesting to know what I know, but don't know I know. Like where I put my car keys. If anyone has any good evidence that suppressed or repressed memories really exist, the alien abduction crowd will be delighted to hear about it.
In my first post, I asked people to be nice. I expected the conversation to turn to
me eventually. I wrote about a
weird experience. I was hoping people could resist turning it into a conversation about a
weird person. A futile hope, of course, but this conversation has been very good.
Just in case a few people missed it:
I've said several times that I do not believe in spontaneous human combustion. I didn't combust from the inside out and we all know that.
I told my little tale for one reason. Weird things do happen in this world. Woos immediately attribute the happening to some paranormal factor. Some skeptics make the same kind of mistake, except they immediately attribute the weird event to a safe explanation and look no further. Unfortunately, in my opinion, jumping to attribution does not always explain weird things well.
Spontaneous human combustion (which is a misnomer for people burning up when their surroundings don't burn up) is often attributed to a fat, booze soaked, cigarette smoker passing out with a cigarette in their hand and catching their clothes on fire. Or some other permutation of a fat boozehound catching their clothes on fire and being too bemuddled to swat out the flames or roll on the ground or notice the excruciating pain. The clothes act as kindling and body fat acts as fuel. The person's body burns, feeding the fire with their own fatty flesh.
A dead pig wrapped in a blanket will burn in just such a manner.
Well, I'm not a dead pig. I can see and feel my shoulder blades. I'm not a drinker, druggie or smoker. I didn't fall into some faint or fugue and forget what I was doing. I accept that research clearly shows human memory is unreliable. But that's a far cry from accepting that the explanation for the unexplained event lies buried in suppressed memories.
Using suppressed memory as an explanation for
anything falls in line with John Mack and the other psychologists who explain natural phenomenon like sleep paralysis and night terrors by saying the events represents repressed memory of alien abduction or sexual assault.
I firmly reject the idea of "recovered" memories. There is no evidence at all that recovered memories are anything other than suggestion and confabulation. So where could we possibly go with the idea that the answer to my shirt igniting lies buried in something I know, but don't know I know.
As skeptics, we have to do better than that. Oh, by the way, I haven't lost my car keys in years. I guess it's my husband who knows, but doesn't know that he knows where he put his shoes.
Sheesh!