It wasn't safe-sex and it wasn't non-distressing.
So your claim that consensual, non-distressing sex with a 13 year old girl is not rape is irrelevant.
Replying to multiple people individually:
How surprising. You didn't read what I wrote, or you didn't understand it, you're repeating the same mistakes and you're either deliberately or accidentally misrepresenting what I said.
Firstly, I didn't say the Polanski case involved safe sex - Polanski and the girl's statements agree that it did not.
Secondly none of us know whether it was non-distressing, since Polanski and the girl's statements disagree on that point and the medical evidence showed no sign of trauma. Back to remedial skeptic training with you.
How is it an emotive misnomer ? Was it rape or not ?
So, instead of "murder" should we use "unlawful termination" ?
Don't be silly. What Polanski pleaded guilty to was unlawful sex, which is just what it says on the label. Having sex with someone who, legally, you're not supposed to. If there is no lack of "simple" consent and no element of force or coercion I feel that using the term "rape" is completely inaccurate and serves only to inflame emotions.
Even if the child is quite young we still have the much more accurate and equally emotive term "child molestation" for that kind of behaviour. There's absolutely no need to co-opt the term used for forcing sex on someone.
I'll give you a really simple example of the fundamental logical point here. Or to put it another way, here's your remedial skeptical training.
Kevin: Not everything in this sack is mine.
Belz: Aha! This safety razor is in the sack and has your name on it! You liar!
Kevin: I did not state that nothing in this sack is mine.
Belz: Huh? That's what you just said! Again, huh? "Not everything in this sack is mine" means "Nothing in this sack is mine!", right?
I made two statements using the clause "if Polanski is guilty of everything he's been accused of". ("If everything in the sack was mine...").
I did
not make those statements using the clause "If Polanski is guilty of anything he's accused of". ("If anything in the sack was mine...").
I hope you now understand this distinction.
This kind of "misunderstanding" amazingly always seems to crop up in threads touching on these issues, and I lost tolerance for it a long time ago. Generally speaking I try to use language as precisely as possible. I endeavour to say
exactly what I mean, no more and no less. I don't always succeed but I usually do, and when I fail I correct myself.
This does me only a limited amount of good when I'm dealing with people who don't read
exactly what I say. People like you, gtc, Checkmite and Varwoche, I'm convinced, read every second or third word, make up the rest, and then post nonsensical replies that don't even relate to the actual points I made. Then you all read every second or third word of each others' posts, see that you're all getting outraged, and collectively assume your outrage must be based on something other than your own misunderstandings.
Not gonna happen; deal with it.
Cases in point.
Here's a challenge for you two and gtc, if you're not the dishonest bottom-feeders I believe your actions show you to be.
Link to the posts by me that you think discredit me, and explain in your own words (1) exactly what I'm saying and (2) why it's bad. Don't link to your own self-serving posts lying about what I said and why it's bad, as Varwoche has already done, link to my actual posts.
I think you're going to find that you can't even make an honest attempt at #1 without realising you're being idiots.
Since you are attempting to defame me by lying about my previous posts I think you have the burden of proof. If you can't do this then either stop defaming me in your posts or get the hell out. Put up or shut up.
The response I expect is "I know what I read, even if I can't find it any more and I only read every third word at the time! How about you post stuff in this thread instead, and we'll read every third word of it and respond to that?". Or possibly a post full of links and then a cop-out like "These posts speak for themselves! I don't need to read more than every third word to know that!". However if you do that, as I fully expect you to, hopefully the readers of this thread will identify you as the liars you are and ignore your contributions.
I repeat: Link to the posts by me that you think discredit me, and explain in your own words (1) exactly what I'm saying and (2) why it's bad.