I didn't want to simply refer to debunking sites when responding to conspiracists. This involved me having to research deeper.
As the author of one of those "debunking sites," I can say I was trying to save you the trouble. But certainly not deprive you of the pleasure. Well, actually I was trying to save myself the trouble. In the mid-1990s I realized that the Apollo hoax was a long drive right down the middle of my professional fairway, and within a few years more and more people were coming to me asking the same questions. I started my site as a repository of the answers to common questions -- just an ever-growing FAQ -- so that I didn't have to keep typing the same responses.
I found that field experts are very willing to impart information (and their time) if approached correctly...
From my perspective, the aerospace industries and government agencies have always been far more cooperative than conspiracy theorists. Conspiracy theorists are great seekers of publicity, but scrupulously avoid any exercise that would create any real accountability. They are largely evasive and secretive.
I stopped eventually due to the time spent on researching and responding, only for the goals to be continually shifted when debating.
Conspiracy theorists don't like the prospect of being wrong, and they don't the prospect of having to prove they're right. Hence most conspiracy debates devolve quite quickly into some flavor of a rhetorical quagmire over who has to do more homework.
But more to the point, conspiracy theorists don't like the prospect of being in the mainstream. Ironically that means they don't want to win the debate either, at least in the sense of having their hypothesis widely accepted and believed. That would make their theory the mainstream, and then they'd just be a few voices among millions. There's no thrill there, no payoff.
Nobody roots for Goliath; they root for David. The thrill of conspiracism is the belief in being right, but
also being in a small minority who is right, having triumphed (or in the process of triumphing) over insurmountable opposition.
When you understand this, you realize the purpose of debate among conspiracy theorists is not to test ideas or resolve ambiguity, but
to prolong the debate. Conspiracy theorists don't fear being wrong. They fear being irrelevant.
Just recently Bart Sibrel posted to YouTube a bootleg of a 2003 documentary I appeared in, saying the reason his material wasn't included was because it was too good and the producers couldn't refute it. A total lie, of course. But the subtext is, "I was left out! I'm relevant! I'm important!" He doesn't even mind get slugged in the face by astronauts, as long as he gets to write himself into the Apollo saga. Similarly I worked on an unaired pilot for the History Channel (before they went all Bigfoot on us) in which we interviewed the late Ralph Rene -- his major complaint was that all the other conspiracy theorists had stolen his thunder and taken center stage away from him.
As Oscar Wilde said, "The only thing worse than being talked about is not being talked about."
The problem with conspiracies related to UFOs etc - it seems difficult to be able get your hands on any real data or information to have a worthwhile discussion about it.
That's the nail hit. Many other conspiracy theories are based around happenstance events like UFO sightings, assassinations, school shootings, and terrorist attacks. As such, everything we know about them must be pieced together in retrospect.
Apollo was an affirmatively planned, meticulously documented achievement involving many people of all walks of life. There simply isn't much factual ambiguity into which a conspiracy theorist can drive a wedge. The ambiguity in that arena is not the dearth of fact, but a proper understanding of the facts. Apollo is literally rocket science, and that means a lot of the intended audience for a conspiracy theory won't have the specialized knowledge to see through it. All the author has to do is wave his hands sensationally and yell "Radiation!" and the gullible folk will assume he knows what he's talking about.
...I think this interest was a catalyst that recently propelled me into undergraduate study.
I think you have the right approach. The smartest thing any person can do is to realize he needs more knowledge.