All the hatred here makes me sad.
It's not hatred, it's frustration in not being able to communicate common sense to you, on the subject matter.
All the hatred here makes me sad.
Derren Brown can do exactly what John Edward can, and yet Brown doesn't claim to be psychic at all, what does that tell you?

... there is a difference between healthy skepticism and being unable to truly be open-minded.
So yes, I know what it's like to stand by the sidelines and watch people I care about make poor decisions that may negatively impact them - I'm doing it right now.
You couldn't tape it because you were out, and it will be shown August 13th?
Hello, Pinochio.
I confess to being utterly confused. Earlier, this show was being touted as evidence for life after death, and OccamJr talked of there being ..."personal details about some subjects that would be impossible to explain away with tricks". Now you are saying that there are no such details.Agatha, The View is a popular American morning talk show. It really doesn't matter if you can't see it 'cause as my brother said there were no stupendous JE trademark hits that we would offer here as proof of life after death. We don't even know if they are gonna air our portion. The message JE asked me to deliver is sure to ruffle some feathers here and as such I selfishly recommend nobody watch it anyway!
One in 200, which is not that bad as competition entries go. And given your web presence as a vocal supporter of JE, your particular odds were almost certainly better than that.Actually, we were kidding, we never won tickets to the show...I mean really, what are the chances we would actually be 1 of 100 picked out of a whopping 20,000 entries!
Um, what?People who believed that musta been high on pina coladas! Yeah, that's it...kidding...no show for you to watch - move along now, everyone. Let's go see what flaccon's up to!
If it makes you feel any better, Randi hasn't had much of an influence on me at all. What had a far bigger impact was taking logic and critical thinking classes when I was in college many moons ago. After that I had to assess my own belief in many un-evidenced things like astrology, tarot, ghosts, and psychics, and I decided for myself that these things weren't real. The only thing that Randi did that really had an impact on me was this video, which I saw in a critical thinking class while I was in college:You seem nice. Ironically though, I feel it is you and most people on this site who are the victims. You've been brainwashed into thinking like James Randi. And when I say that, please know that I believe being skeptical is a good thing. But there is a difference between healthy skepticism and being unable to truly be open-minded. So yes, I know what it's like to stand by the sidelines and watch people I care about make poor decisions that may negatively impact them - I'm doing it right now.
Look, nobody on this thread wishes you or OccamJr any ill-will. There is no hatred towards you, only towards people like JE who lie and cheat and scam people out of their money.
We are attempting to show you the truth about this con-artist not because we want to upset you or damage your memories of your father, but because we care that you are being manipulated and exploited by someone who makes his living by lying to vulnerable people. We are trying to help you see that JE is a fraud who relies on both cold and hot reading to get his 'hits', and who relies on the gullibility of his audience and their willingness to believe.
Another lurker here, posting to say sorry, Robin, I started off utterly unconvinced about psychics and your 'evidence' as shown in your posts here has just made me all the more certain that they're con artists, and not even particularly good con artists. I second all that people have been saying about not hating, not missing out on anything by thinking like this, but being concerned for your welfare and for all those others who have been manipulated and abused for money by conmen like John Edwards.
Try reading my posts again.
You know what, don't even bother.
You're eagerness to pounce on me makes me sad.
All the hatred here makes me sad.
You seem nice. Ironically though, I feel it is you and most people on this site who are the victims. You've been brainwashed into thinking like James Randi. And when I say that, please know that I believe being skeptical is a good thing. But there is a difference between healthy skepticism and being unable to truly be open-minded. So yes, I know what it's like to stand by the sidelines and watch people I care about make poor decisions that may negatively impact them - I'm doing it right now.
It only happened a few minutes ago. I see only one yellow card in AAH so one assumes something else happened.(ETA: I apologize for the appearance of "piling on". I posted these last two before I read that Robin! had been suspended again.)
Good summary.For lurkers I want to summarize this thread;
Robin claimed to have proof of the afterlife which turned out to be a cold reading she got fro John Edward.
Various people made earnest attempts at explaining how John does his act but Robin ignored these folks and kept making excuses for John Edward.
At some point supposedly Robins Brother, A skeptical person, Joined this site and the thread got even stranger.
Robin & Occam claimed they won tickets to a John Edward show and that we could see it on the View, this would be the proof we had been asking for.
It's unknown if they did or did not at this time.
As a personal note I a very sorry you lost someone Robin, As you already know I have too. I am sorry that in a vulnerable state you saw John Edward and he did what he does best, make money from your tragedy. I don't want to speak for everyone, however I think it's safe to assume all here would love to find out what happens after death, No evidence for the afterlife has been presented.
Before we bust up this party, and god dammit we're gonna bust it up, we have to make it very clear where our hearts are. We have nothing but empathy for the people who are experiencing the loss and grief of the death of a loved one. That guy who lost his mom rips my heart out. I'm a momma's boy whose mom died a couple of years ago, and I'll never get over it, and my dad died at around the same time, and I was very close to both of them. I loved them so much there isn't a moment that goes by that I don't miss them. Houdini didn't really go nuts busting these mediums until he lost his mom. Once you've felt that pure grief, seeing it exploited can take away your sense of humor.
Once a loved one has died, all we have is our memories of them. There is nothing more precious to me than my memories of my mom and dad. We don't give a rat's [butt] about the money these bastards are taking from the grief stricken; what we do care about deeply is the desecration of memories. These "performance artists" are, in a very real sense, mother-[censored]ers. That poor guy's grieving memories of his mother are now all [messed] up by somebody else's images. All he will ever have left of his mom are memories, and this pig has pissed on those for a buck and a little un-earned fame. I'm sure these lame [censored] tell themselves that they're easing the grief, but skits for money can not replace loving memories. How low do you have to be to exploit someone's true grief to sell some bull[censored] book?
One of the weird things Houdini discovered is that some of these mediums actually slip into believing their own bull. They forget their own misses, or as John Edward, the Biggest Douche in the Universe, does, rewrite them as hits that we're just not able to recognize. Cold reading can be done accidentally. That doesn't mean the psychic is a better person. Lying to themselves does not make lying to others OK. It can make intellectually lazy scumbags more convincing and dangerous. But even if these [censored] know they're just making this [stuff] up and pushing people's buttons, they tell themselves, "At least I'm comforting the bereaved." Who are they to decide that lying about the universe and a dead loved one is what the bereaved needs!? That's condescending bull!
You seem nice. Ironically though, I feel it is you and most people on this site who are the victims. You've been brainwashed into thinking like James Randi. And when I say that, please know that I believe being skeptical is a good thing.
But there is a difference between healthy skepticism and being unable to truly be open-minded.
So yes, I know what it's like to stand by the sidelines and watch people I care about make poor decisions that may negatively impact them - I'm doing it right now.
It's times like this that I feel that Penn Jillett's words from the pilot episode of Penn & Teller's B.S. are appropriate. (Language cleaned up.)
Then why do you condemn it as "thinking like James Randi"??? I mean, Sweet Jesus, you just flat contradicted yourself.
And we're back to this again.
Robin, like most here, I would love it if there was life after death, and we could communicate with passed loved ones. I just haven't seen any evidence to support it. You came here saying you had "proof". You've since acknowledged that your "proof" is not enough to be considered conclusive by reasonable rational thinkers. YOU conceded that. Now, we're all in agreement on that point, yet makes the skeptics closed minded?
How does not believing in JE based on conclusive evidence that he is a fraud negatively impact anyone? Give us a specific example.
Yeah, I know she's gone for a month, but the question stands. I've heard this before, and I don't understand the thought process. How does not believing in psychic ability negatively impact our lives? Are these people like Robin referring to the idea that otherwordly presences cannot reach us since we don't believe, and, therefore, we are missing out on Pops telling us we just bought a new appliance? I don't see the negative impact.
Paying good money to a fraud coupled with being played emotionally-that seems like it would have a far greater chance of having a real, almost tangible, negative impact on someone's life. Even if they believe it, and maybe especially if they believe it. It's hiding from reality. It's emotionally stunting. What is to be gained from it, other than false senses of comfort, etc? Wouldn't that just make real hardship that much more difficult to face?