From billydkid:
I am not very learned about middle eastern politics, but if I understand correctly, a significant portion of the inhabitants of the lands now identified as Israel do not have citizenship and can not vote. How that can be called a democracy in any genuine sense is beyond me. If I am wrong about this, my mistake.
True, you are not learned, you do not understand correctly, and what you say is more than just a mistake. I want to explain why it could be seen as an anti-semitic ‘mistake’.
Actually, I don’t know exactly what your misunderstanding is. Do you mean the inhabitants of the disputed (or ‘occupied’, if you prefer) territories (who do not wish to be Israeli citizens or vote in Israeli elections and are fighting for a separate state)? Or are you talking about immigration laws and foreign workers who are denied citizenship? If so, every democracy has those (right or wrong), and you would need to justify your singling out of Israel for criticism on that. Whatever your reasons for claiming that Israel is as bad as apartheid South Africa, they are certainly based on lack of knowledge.
Now, we are all happy to comment on issues (especially political ones) that we know little about, so I have to justify my statement that your inappropriate comments here may indicate some unconscious anti-semitism.
First, I will do you the courtesy of assuming that, when discussing the policies of a foreign country with one of its inhabitants, you don’t normally begin by being deliberately offensive. I assume you don’t stride in, fists waving, saying things like ‘well, actually, I don’t know what I’m talking about but I’ll make some ill-informed criticisms anyway’. (Though, as you’re an American…

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You must be aware that discussing Israel/Palestine with Jews, whilst not the same as discussing it with Israelis or Palestinians, is also not the same as discussing with disinterested parties. Jews tend to have vastly greater knowledge of the history and politics of the situation than outsiders, and also a great emotional involvement (often including an Israeli family). It is therefore a matter of common decency and common sense to bear in mind our sensibilities in this discussion.
Contrast these two statements. One is guaranteed to annoy me with its offensive exaggeration; the other is a considered opinion that I disagree with but which provides a basis for discussion:
billydkid:
they are as much a democracy as South Africa was during the apartheid era
varwoche:
I consider Israel to be on the path to an apartheid state
I suspect that you are happy to have your opinions ready made for you by those biased towards or against one side, without troubling yourself about tedious facts. Unfortunately, that is all too common. If you retort that exactly the same could be said about many pro-Israelis (or anti-Palestinians) then I can only agree.
Let me put it this way. You have some interest in the Israel/Palestine issue, else you wouldn’t have bothered posting. Presumably you would like me to listen to you (your assumptions about my views are utterly wrong, by the way). If so, it helps that I don’t write you off as an anti-semitic bigot. You made a comment that Jews would tend to find offensive, and possibly even anti-semitic. When I pointed this out to you (and tried to explain why I was offended) you retreated into an indignant denunciation of my supposed Israel-apologist views. Not a good start.
varwoche: I don’t think that any single remark can be interpreted with certainty as anti-semitic (including ‘Hitler was right’, which was once said to me). It is all a matter of context and probability. Does the person also have positive things to say about Jews and/or Israel? Does the person display any compassion for Israel’s problems, or is the compassion entirely one sided? Are this person’s mistaken assumptions consistently in an anti-Jewish/anti-Israel direction? Of course, the test of anti-Israel criticism is whether there is any balancing criticism directed towards Arabs or Palestinians. For example, blaming the Israeli government for provoking suicide bombings is a bit of a giveaway.