No. You are weaseling words, for the most part.
"Responsible," for one. Let's look at how it's defined:
re·spon·si·ble/riˈspänsəbəl/
Adjective:
1) Having an obligation to do something as part of a job or role.
2)
Being the primary cause of something and so able to be blamed or credited for it.Your use of "responsible" most closely corresponds to highlighted (2), correct?
I supplied you with a link to a news story about an eight-year-old boy who, on his birthday, was out walking when a 13-year-old boy doused him in gasoline and set him ablaze.
And now you want to believe that
the eight-year-old was responsible for being set on fire.
Here's a story about an infant, eight days old, who was raped by her own father.
http://www.todaysthv.com/news/local/story.aspx?storyid=71901&catid=2
And you want to believe
the infant is responsible for her own rape.
What do these two examples show you?
Explain to us how an infant of eight days can be responsible for being raped by her own father.
It's not a rhetorical question. Explain it.