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"Being black means never having to apologize" ??

But also and FYI, "never having to apologize" is a figure of speech and you misinterpreted what I was saying regardless. My point was much broader.
I don't want to misinterpret you. I wonder if you could rephrase and/or elaborate on what you meant? Your original quote is below:
No, it's mocking the absurd "being black means never having to say your'e sorry" attitude I have seen/heard about a billions times either personally or in the media/news from black apologists, w/the mindless self-righteous Whoopi being one of the worst. In case you missed it, she led the charge of apologists for Mikey Vick, a famous, highly hyped football player who was convicted for running a dog-fighting ring (PS and oh by the way, he also killed/tortured them in the sickest of ways, and latest word is he really enjoyed it to boot). She came out with this "well he was just a product of his environment" BS rather than just admitting he's scum. But can't do that of course, it would "betray the brotherhood."

More generally, I'm sick to death of that attitude, which is all the rage thanks mostly to hoardes of mindless white liberals still apparently feeling guilty about slavery, or whatever. It's not equal treatment at all, it's preferential treatment - the very thing they claim to be the problem in the first place.
Regarding this:
But I've avoided coming back to this thread because I knew it would get more than a little sidetracked, sneered at, and/or this "test tube mentality" would be thrown out, eg "if you don't have online links to double-blind studies" (blah blah etc) then I won't even consider your viewpoint." Fine, whatever. Sorry, I don't have online links to what I have seen in the media and regarding my own personal experiences (Hurricane Katrina was a good one, thx truethat). But this isn't a court of law or a laboratory, and I'm not interested in "winning".....and nothing personal against anyone, but when you get down to it, frankly I don't care much who does or doesn't believe or even dare to consider what I have to say on this. In fact I'm amazed when anyone does, because it is so severely "un-PC" and PC rules the day.
You stated an opinion here, and I'm interested in discussing it. I'm not asking anyone to here to be "PC" or provide double-blind studies. Thanks for posting the media examples. I would like to respond to those, but before I do I want to be sure I understand your point.

What do you mean by "being black means never having to say you're sorry?"
 
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I am a black person. I would prefer to be judged as an INDIVIDUAL PERSON and not as a skin color or dragged in with other black people because they do or say some certain thing you don't like.

People are judged by all kinds of reasons. This is because you need to categorize people who you don't know as individuals.
If you were a white person, and I posted a video of George W. Bush saying something foolish then commented "look at how white people speak," do you see how that would be dragging you in and attacking you for sharing a skin color with someone else who may have said something foolish? That's what you do when you make blanket statements about "the black community."

Well the thing is that there does not seem to be as unified a white community as there is a black community. You would have to talk about conservatives or evangelicals.

But black people vote largely as a block, when on issues that are divisive to the country as a whole, it shows that they have a common culture.

I am making no claims that you identify with black culture but it does exist.
 
Criticizing BLACK PEOPLE or THE BLACK COMMUNITY is inaccurate, because there's nothing the group we call "black people" shares in common that is wrong or counterproductive. There are people within that group, including the President-Elect, billionaires, philanthropists, Nobel Prize winners and so on, who have done very good things for society.

No community is homogeneous, that does not mean it can not be thought of as a community. Look at how little traction gay marriage gets in the black community. That is an issue that a large majority of black people agree on.
 
What "black culture?" Please give me a single cultural practice that all or nearly all black people share. If you can't, then there is no "black culture." There is a hip-hop culture, there is an inner-city culture, there might be a Jamaican culture, or an "Afro-centric" culture, or an upper-middle class culture, but there is no culture shared by all "black people" and thus it is inaccurate to use that term.

Just because you can break a culture down into smaller groups does not mean that there is not are not significant large cultural groupings as well.
 
What do you mean by "being black means never having to say you're sorry?"

I won't presume to speak for the OP, but in my opinion, it simply means that you are held to a different standard of accountability; you can "get away" with saying or doing certain things.

eg the whole N-word thing, or actions during Katrina, or trampling someone to death at walmart on black friday, or dog-fighting.

The idea is that people are more willing to make excuses on your behalf to explain away your actions if you're black.

If I completely misrepresented the OP then I apologize.
 
The point is, truethat doesn't even understand what we typically label as black culture. His argument is "I don't know anything that black people do outside of hip-hop, therefore that is all they do."

I think you're misrepresenting him here.

No, my argument boils down to "don't assign characteristics to ethnicities instead of their actual causes." Please see my diagram in the other thread. It's a specific point about how our phrasing is wrong, and that phrasing can create bad ideas and wrong actions.

Which sounds more like you are just trying to make a general point about stereotypes. I actually think your phrasing is wrong here. You seem to be ignoring all the nuances that go into talking about cultures and ethnicities. Black culture is a way of summing up a very general, shared experience of a group of people. Within it is the shared history of slavery, the Civil Rights Movement, as well as forms of music and art. Skin color is actually the smallest part of this culture, IMO. I think it's possible for non-blacks to actually become part of black culture and vice versa. I think it's superficial to get obsessive about the labels we use for all of this.

Well, there's a difference between a nationality and an ethnicity. Nations have common laws, cultural symbols and so on that you can actually assign to people of that nationality. Ethnicities do not. It's accurate to say that Americans sing the Star-Spangled Banner as their national anthem. It's not accurate to say that "White People" do anything specific.

Ethnicities actually DO identify along similar cultural lines (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ethnicity). And a nationality is not really what I was talking about. When I say Japanese culture, I'm not talking about their national anthem or their laws, that would be Japanese nationality. Japanese culture has to do with social norms and general rules regarding acceptable behavior as well as trends in the arts. If I say the Japanese have a very respectful culture, I'm not saying all Japanese people act respectful towards each other.

I think economics is different, because in a free-market each person looks out for their own interests, so economic decisions aren't going to be as dangerous as lawmaking decisions.

Whether or not something is dangerous doesn't really enter into the picture just yet. And I don't think the economics example is any different, to be honest. Just as I could run a statistical regression on what kinds of jobs women have a tendency to take on average, I can run a statistical regression on what time of music a white person is likely to listen to on average.

If you incorrectly conclude that Hispanic people don't read, so you don't market novels to Hispanic people, the worst that can happen is that you miss out on sales and some potential fans of a book may never see it.

But if you incorrectly conclude that Hispanic people don't read, so you bar Hispanic people from schools, you're effecting people's lives and preventing the individual Hispanic person from achieving something.

That doesn't make any sense. If we were to run a regression and find that a person who self-identifies as Hispanic is, on average, a certain percentage less likely to, say, read a book in a given year, we don't ban all Hispanic people from schools. The statistical and economic reasoning that you're afraid the government will use to pass laws and make decisions is ALL READY in use and has been for quite some time. That's how they figure out where, when and how to target particular legislation. If the government were to run the regression and find that Hispanic people, on average, are less literate than other groups, they would probably launch some kind of reading initiative in densely populated Hispanic areas. They don't just do it with racial groupings either. They look at education backgrounds, class, age, gender, etc.

There's nothing insulting about someone assuming you like something. I wouldn't get angry at a harmless mistake. I do listen to hip-hop music like lots of other types of music, but I don't buy into that ridiculous culture.

Here is a very important distinction that I'm glad you made. You can listen to hip hop without buying into that culture. There is a hip hop culture that is separate from people who just happen to listen to hip hop. But what can we say about the hip hop culture? What makes it a culture if not the fact that a person happens to listen to it? My guess would be that most people think of the hip hop culture as baggy pants, bandanas, extravagant jewelry, etc. Would I be right about that? We have generalized an idea about hip hop, however there plenty of hip hoppers that don't always fit the mold of what we think makes a person part of that culture. Are we therefore wrong to talk about a hip hop culture? Do you see where I'm going with this? We can eventually subdivide every "culture" down to its individuals and point out that really none of them are the same. Is that to say that there's no such thing as culture then?

So someone walking up to me assuming I heard the latest 50 Cent album doesn't bother me. But, if someone says something BAD about me or a group of which I am a member, then I'm going to be irritated like anyone else. Even moreso if the insult is wrong and ignorant.

That sounds like cherry picking to me. You don't mind if someone generalizes you into a culture as long as it's not a "bad" culture.

Would it make it more clear if I said that I also have a very extensive DVD collection, but I think Hollywood "celebrity" culture is ridiculous and shallow?

No. Instead, let me ask if you think there's anything besides skin color that goes into "whiteness" and "blackness"?
 
I won't presume to speak for the OP, but in my opinion, it simply means that you are held to a different standard of accountability; you can "get away" with saying or doing certain things.

eg the whole N-word thing, or actions during Katrina, or trampling someone to death at walmart on black friday, or dog-fighting.

The idea is that people are more willing to make excuses on your behalf to explain away your actions if you're black.

If I completely misrepresented the OP then I apologize.

What actions did blacks "get away" with during Katrina--please cite a specific example.

Who suggested that anyone should "get away" with the Walmart trampling?

A specific example of making excuses to explain away actions if you're black?
 
At the drug store I work at, when a new set of six signs arrived to be put up above the photo counter, a couple of people who'd never seen them yet made predictions about how many people of which races would be shown among the six. I added that the token black person was more likely to be male than female and the token eastern Asian person was almost guaranteed to be female. We were all exactly correct. It's gotten that predictable.

Ah. Yes, you're correct there, and I think that everyone except for the "we need to be inclusive" HR people has caught on to these ham-fisted attempts.
 
People are judged by all kinds of reasons. This is because you need to categorize people who you don't know as individuals.

The problem is, people tend to do so based on poor ideas, and so end up with an image that has nothing at all to do with the groups they're discussing.

As two easy examples, I can't recall too many black people who regard Al Sharpton as a "black leader", and I've seen widespread agreement, even among rap fans, that Bill Cosby is correct. And yet, it's not at all hard to find people who insist on the opposite.


Well the thing is that there does not seem to be as unified a white community as there is a black community. You would have to talk about conservatives or evangelicals.

But black people vote largely as a block, when on issues that are divisive to the country as a whole, it shows that they have a common culture.

This is wrong, as far as I know. Blacks tend to vote as a bloc on *candidates*, but that's based on other issues that do not reflect opinions on, say, abortion or drug laws (the democrats have been very good at outreach, and the republicans and third parties very poor).
 
Which sounds more like you are just trying to make a general point about stereotypes. I actually think your phrasing is wrong here. You seem to be ignoring all the nuances that go into talking about cultures and ethnicities. Black culture is a way of summing up a very general, shared experience of a group of people. Within it is the shared history of slavery, the Civil Rights Movement, as well as forms of music and art. Skin color is actually the smallest part of this culture, IMO. I think it's possible for non-blacks to actually become part of black culture and vice versa. I think it's superficial to get obsessive about the labels we use for all of this.

This is something I have wondered about, who is more in touch with black culture, Clarance Thomas or Bill Clinton?
 
The problem is, people tend to do so based on poor ideas, and so end up with an image that has nothing at all to do with the groups they're discussing.

Possibly and possibly not. You can for example talk about american culture with and its views on say math eduction vs Chinese culture and its views on math education. You are talking about incredibly large groups with many individual views on such things represented in them. Yet those distinctions are not meaningless. In the above I am talking about well over a billion people, but it is not a meaningless distinction.

It depends on how accurate the image is, and how readily one is to discard their image when presented with disconfirming evidence that are what matter.

As two easy examples, I can't recall too many black people who regard Al Sharpton as a "black leader", and I've seen widespread agreement, even among rap fans, that Bill Cosby is correct. And yet, it's not at all hard to find people who insist on the opposite.

Having disagreements does not prevent them from being viewed as the same culture though.



This is wrong, as far as I know. Blacks tend to vote as a bloc on *candidates*, but that's based on other issues that do not reflect opinions on, say, abortion or drug laws (the democrats have been very good at outreach, and the republicans and third parties very poor).

Depends on the issue. I cited Prop 8, something a very large majority of black voters were in favor of. It might even be that Obama's candidacy caused the proposition to succeed, because he pulled so many blacks and other minorities to the voting booth.

I am sure there are contentious issues with in the black community but that does not mean that it is not a community.
 
What actions did blacks "get away" with during Katrina--please cite a specific example.

Who suggested that anyone should "get away" with the Walmart trampling?

A specific example of making excuses to explain away actions if you're black?

No no no, no specifics, no examples, no evidence. This is just an impression people have, and they have a right to their impressions, and you're just going to have to agree to disagree! After all, it's not as though the person making a positive claim bears the burden of proof, right? Right?
 
Possibly and possibly not. You can for example talk about american culture with and its views on say math eduction vs Chinese culture and its views on math education. You are talking about incredibly large groups with many individual views on such things represented in them. Yet those distinctions are not meaningless. In the above I am talking about well over a billion people, but it is not a meaningless distinction.

It depends on how accurate the image is, and how readily one is to discard their image when presented with disconfirming evidence that are what matter.

You can talk about "American culture" or "Chinese culture" in very generally terms when referring to generalities - eg. in America, they celebrate the 4th of July - or in statistical terms - eg. only xx% of Americans believe math education is important, compared to yy% of people in China.

The problem is that when it comes to "the black community" the remarks are often both specific, non-statistical, and based on misperception that people will *not* throw away when confirming evidence is found - eg. "Jesse Jackson and Al Sharpton are the black leaders. Bill Cosby spoke the truth, and black people hate him." A more truthful statement would be "According to PEW polls, 85% of blacks approve of Bill Cosby." In other words, the whole "black people hate Bill Cosby" idea is true for a few, but typically false.

Much like statements about how "hip hop is violent" sound incredibly stupid to a guy like me.

I am sure there are contentious issues with in the black community but that does not mean that it is not a community.

But the entire point is that people (and it may not be you) assume that there's no contentious issues within the black community, or who have no idea what the contentions are.

And for that matter, it's about people who don't recognize that black communities in NYC, LA, Atlanta, Boston, Seattle, and so forth, are are different. They *are*. The end.
 
You can talk about "American culture" or "Chinese culture" in very generally terms when referring to generalities - eg. in America, they celebrate the 4th of July - or in statistical terms - eg. only xx% of Americans believe math education is important, compared to yy% of people in China.

Not always. You can talk in generalities about what americans value for example.
The problem is that when it comes to "the black community" the remarks are often both specific, non-statistical, and based on misperception that people will *not* throw away when confirming evidence is found

But just because the terms can be misused does not mean that they are worthless.

- eg. "Jesse Jackson and Al Sharpton are the black leaders.

I think that they are leaders in a certain sense, but they are probably portrayed as having more voice than they do. I also think that they are constantly trying to prove to the world that they are still relevant. As they try to make everything about race and are known on a national level it is easy to see why

Bill Cosby spoke the truth, and black people hate him." A more truthful statement would be "According to PEW polls, 85% of blacks approve of Bill Cosby." In other words, the whole "black people hate Bill Cosby" idea is true for a few, but typically false.

Much like statements about how "hip hop is violent" sound incredibly stupid to a guy like me.

My origional point was that I could see the view of black masculinity as being something that would discourage apologizing more strongly than general American masculinity that discourages it as well.

For example the way someone deals with answering a question that they do not know the answer to is highly culturally dependent. Admitting ignorance is stigmatized in some cultures very strongly. I have heard this as a specific problem in some nations.

But the entire point is that people (and it may not be you) assume that there's no contentious issues within the black community, or who have no idea what the contentions are.

And for that matter, it's about people who don't recognize that black communities in NYC, LA, Atlanta, Boston, Seattle, and so forth, are are different. They *are*. The end.

And they are also similar on some things.

Do they have sufficiently different views of masculinity to permit them to have different views on homosexuality?
 
Not always. You can talk in generalities about what americans value for example.

But just because the terms can be misused does not mean that they are worthless.

Yes. This is okay, as long as you have polled enough to show a broad trend, and only regard it as a broad trend. Unfortunately, when it comes to "the black community", incorrect stereotypes are often (as in, half of the time, in my experience) applied, and then held to all individual black people. It's not that the term is misused, it's that it's often wildly misused, and so anyone using it is likely to use it incorrectly.

As an example, let's take your claim that "the black community" is more homogenous than "the white community. Well, I could easily claim that George W. Bush and John McCain are "the white leaders", and that white people only like guitar-oriented music, while black people look to diverse leadership and like a wide variety of instruments and vocal styles.

That is, If I were to ignore Bush's unpopularity, the wide variation of white voting percentages by region, and the fact that many whites listen to rap and soul music.

I think that they are leaders in a certain sense, but they are probably portrayed as having more voice than they do. I also think that they are constantly trying to prove to the world that they are still relevant. As they try to make everything about race and are known on a national level it is easy to see why

It's really hard to make a case for Sharpton in any sense - he's mostly a pundit that people like to throw tomatoes at. Jackson *may* have had a claim in the 80s, but certainly not today.

Do they have sufficiently different views of masculinity to permit them to have different views on homosexuality?

Opposition to homosexuality in black communities is usually based on the "ick" factor, and the bible, not masculinity. Naturally, the opinions vary with age, religion, and region.
 
In the interests of racial harmony, I would like to sincerely apologise on behalf of all Black People, for any bad thing that any Black Person may have done, in any time.

I trust this settles the matter.

Regards,
Gumboot
 
Opposition to homosexuality in black communities is usually based on the "ick" factor, and the bible, not masculinity. Naturally, the opinions vary with age, religion, and region.

Gee I thought there was nothing as uniform as black culture so that this statement is inherently wrong. It must be random chance then that so many blacks vote and hold strong opinions against gay marraige. Because after all they have no common culture.
 

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