You ain't getting it, did you see all the lights come on in the video?... no, in which case your idea of my 1 and only LED bulb switching on is a non starter ..
Show me the other lights dimly coming on, if you can't, drop it
I showed which lights flickered, in which sequence frame by frame, how you can tell they're some of the same lights that were on at the start of the video, and that neither one of them moves, by matching up the reflections, highlights, and shadows.
You claim there cannot be lightning flashes without audible thunder. Most people on this planet have experienced lightning flashes without audible thunder. I don't think your video recording shows lightning flashes, but that's because I know where the flashes came from, not because lightning flashes without audible thunder are particularly unusual.
You claim to carefully eliminate every possibility, like skydivers with lasers, but you don't mention far more plausible possibilities like pedestrians with flashlights. I don't think your video recording shows a pedestrian's flashlight, but that's because I know where the flashes came from, not because pedestrians with flashlights are as unlikely as skydivers, let alone aliens.
You claim that it's impossible to illuminate one thing without the same light source illuminating some other thing in the same view. Actually that's trivially easy; it just means the thing that's not illuminated is shaded by something else, which may or may not be in view, closer to the light source. (If that's impossible because the illuminated and shaded objects are collinear with the light source, just move the light source a little and it becomes possible again.)
Your claims imply that some aliens travelled for decades in hibernation (or maybe just hanging out playing cards in ten-forward) and expended an amount of energy sufficient to power a planetary civilization for a millennium, in order to steal a few hundred kilowatt-hours of Australian AC and peep in your bedroom. Are you particularly good-looking, or what?