BN you have to remember where you are. At JREF a lot of people have what I call a "test tube" mentality, ie they don't even consider believing anything if it hasn't been dissected to death via multiple studies (all must be online of course) blah etc.

Not a bad mindset per se, but taken too far it's very myopic, and at times I suspect used as some sort of social identity boost - which is OK, we all have those, but yeesh - the idea of questioning some of these things is like questioning if water is wet.
Hey yeah - how do you know water is wet? Do you have a study that proves it?? Did peers sign off on this?? I don't buy it.
Again I think much of what you have stated here could easily be grasped by the average 12 yr old - the idea of being "skeptical" over such simple truths I find pretty curious too, but to each their own I guess.
Thanks. It's nice to know someone else feels that way.
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Thank you for providing me again with this life-enhancing amusement, Iconoclast08. If you could bottle it, you could sell it as a self-help cure. ... Would even you not be tempted to sell woo if you could get enough money for it? ... But then, think of what the papers would say if the scandal got out!: How would you translate, "Vehement anti-Wooist goes woo woo!" into language the public would understand.
Only joking.
Iconoclast08 said:
Many people on this forum who question half-baked ideas and armchair conjecture get all sorts of "you big meanie!" type responses launched at them, and
I'm no exception. You may have your area of expertise, but that does not immunize you from credulity and/or falling for dubious claims.
This is almost as amusing as ... no, I won't go there. Let's just say you're not the first big meany here who's accused me of calling people on their meanness when I was in fact making constructive suggestions or having a laugh.

Seriously though, I was hardly accusing you of being mean. What your scathing scornfulness does do, however, is turns people off to any valid message you might have - good psychology will tell you that; and when you come across as unreasonably extreme, you lose credibility. It would be in your
own interests to at least be more cautious about your condemnations.
Or you could carry on amusing me, of course.
Case in point: You suggest the authors are guilty of "armchair conjecture". Um, these are actually practising therapists. They practise what they preach, and they still remain confident in it. Of course, that in itself doesn't mean it's any good; but you don't have enough knowledge about them to suggest they're guilty of mere "armchair conjecture".
I seriously suggest you have a think about what you're trying to achieve here. Are you just trying to trample the opposition, or do you genuinely want to be persuasive? If you do, then I suggest you call on your knowledge of psychology to help you go about it better. Here's an illustration of why you need to do this:
Iconoclast08 said:
I, I, me, me, I, I, I. Anecdotal.
Yes, I suppose it is possible that I just happened to speak to the only people in the world who are unhappy with therapy, and everything else is going on wonderfully.

A piece of advice for future reference: You look better if you're not so hasty to cry "Anecdotal"! One good reason is that you didn't even stop to ponder on whether I was telling the story to prove that therapy is bad, or whether I was simply telling it to you to explain my personal intolerance of over-dismissiveness of self-help books ... or whether I might have another, far more sinister motive.
Iconoclast08 said:
And you either didn't fully consider or understand my last post concerning the self-help issue. What I said is that the reason for "self-help" effectiveness is category lumping ...
Indeed. Note that I didn't actually accuse you of dismissing all self-help books. If you read what I said again, you might notice that. However, your dismissiveness does seem extreme, so while you may not go to the polar extreme of claiming all self-help is bad, you don't seem far off, as illustrated by your:
These more legitimate references may be skewing results in the favor of self-help... that is, a few diamonds
in the self-help dunghill may be skewing the "self-help" results positively.
Now think about what you just said. You who pride yourself on being the "clear-thinking" one here. Could "a few" diamonds amid a "dung-hill" really be responsible for all this?:
Although the pace seems to have slackened in recent years, self-help books are a staple of the American diet.* Judging from the promotion blurbs on back covers, you can: lose weight, overcome co-dependence, quit drinking or using drugs, fight off fear, and ward off anxiety.* If the sales figures are any indication, the programs must be phenomenally successful.* But what does the research say?
Previous reviews on this website have found that self-help is generally as effective as professionally guided treatment when it comes to depression, anxiety–even
alcohol and drug problems.* Recently, researcher Scogin (2003) reviewed the growing literature in this area and found much the same.* Self help books,
manuals, tapes, computer programs, and videotapes have proven effective for depression, anxiety, alcohol abuse, smoking cessation, and child and family
problems "for less intensive cases and more motivated clients."* In the case of alcohol problems, bibliotherapy–reading that is–was not found to be any more effective when it was augmented with consultation with a professional!
Bottom line?* Self-help should perhaps be viewed as the best, "first line" of care for most people.* While this may be surprising to some, research summarized by the founders at ISTC shows that the single largest contributor to change in treatment is the client–responsible for between 40-87% of the variance in
treatment outcome.
Scogin, F.R. (2003).* The status of self-help adminsitered treatments.* Journal of Clinical Psychology, 59(3).
Thus, you prove by yourself that you have no grounds for your accusation:
This was a more nuanced point of mine that you tried to turn into a straw man. Please refrain from turning this into some puerile "ideology" name-calling game.
Please try to refrain from making such unfounded accusations in the future.
Iconoclast08 said:
There truly is a lot of garbage out there masquerading as "self-help" that is professionally irresponsible whether you choose to realize it or not.
Another fault in your position is that even while you accuse me of things I'm not doing by claiming I'm misrepresenting you as having a more extreme position than you have, you misrepresent
me by accusing
me of having an extreme position I don't hold. Ah, the delicious irony.
I'm by no means claiming that all self-help is good. I said
myself in my last post that the quality of self-help books is enormously variable. Perhaps you didn't consider everything I said before drawing your conclusions. :-7
Iconoclast08 said:
If this is truly what you got out of what I wrote, then you are truly having a reading comprehension difficulty with my posts. Either that or you are deliberately
erecting straw-men because you are bereft of a good argument. I'm not sure which.
Hey, I suggest you go back and look at your posts again. Could the JREF forum have been playing wild and dastardly tricks on you?

Could you in fact have put together a down-to-earth and informative analysis of what was wrong with those things I linked to, giving specific examples of things they said that were dubious and explaining why; and the JREF forum, in a fit of mischievous fervour, altered your posts so in fact there was very little to no substance there about the actual reasons you objected to the articles, and just wild unsupported accusation about them being "armchair conjecture" and "woo", etc.? What a terrible thing this forum must be!

Or is it perhaps your posts that are at fault, because you've done exactly what I'm telling you you've done? Again, if you want to be taken seriously, I suggest you use less of the invective and more substance in your argument to back up your case.
Iconoclast08 said:
erecting straw-men because you are bereft of a good argument.
Oh again, the merriment-making irony!

Please give me more substance to work with.
Iconoclast08 said:
What I conveyed (if you understood my posts) was that pawning off armchair conjecture with no peer-review or direct evidence in its favor under the aegis
of professionalism was irresponsible. I never said that it was "dangerous" to publicize common sense, but rather, what you see as "common sense" based
on dubious references is not quality evidentiary support. Rather, peer-review, the scientific method, theoretical parsimony, and double-blind studies pitting
different approaches against each other should be the emphasis and not gut feelings, appeals to emotion, and superficial appeals to "common sense" ("it
feels right...it's obvious...it's common sense", etc.)
So you are in effect saying
exactly what I said you were suggesting - that it was irresponsible of me to link to what I'd linked to, because one would need to have peer-reviews and double-blind studies before it could ever be safe to say something like (as per my post paraphrasing what the articles said):
Some psychologists think everyone has basic emotional needs that have to be met to a certain extent, at least sometimes in people's lives, for us to be
mentally healthy, claiming that anyone who has them all met is a lot less likely to get mentally ill. They say the needs include:
• Security: The feeling that we have a safe territory around us, so we can live our lives without fear as far as possible, and enjoy privacy whenever we
need to.
• Control: We need to feel as if we're in control of our lives and that we're free to make our own decisions about what we do in them, at least to some extent. They say the more interests and activities we're involved in, the more we can maintain that sense of control, because then, if someone loses control
of one part of their lives, for instance if they lose a job, they'll at least know they can determine what they do in other parts of their lives.
• Attention: They say we need to receive some from others, at least sometimes; and that we also need to give it.
• Emotional connection to others: That can include friendship or emotional intimacy. They say it means we ought to have at least one person who will understand us, who we can share our hopes, dreams and ideas with. They say for some people, talking to a pet can fulfil their need for emotional connection, but many
people need more than that.
• Connection to the wider community: They say we need to feel as if we're part of something bigger than ourselves. That could include working for a cause or charity, or being part of a team - anything that takes our focus off ourselves, and gives us a sense of belonging and purpose in life.
• Paying attention to the mind-body connection: They say we can succumb to mental illness more easily if we don't take care to eat healthily and exercise, and if we don't sleep enough.
• A sense of meaning, goals in life and purpose: They say we need to be physically or mentally challenged a bit, by having problems to solve. They say if we don't occupy our imaginations with things that stimulate them and challenge them to invent creative solutions to things, they can be under-used, and
can focus on things that are unhealthy and create problems for us, like magnifying little concerns out of all proportion, till we see them as major problems.
On the other hand, if we use our imagination in creative ways, focusing it outward on something interesting rather than on ourselves, we can feel satisfaction when it manages to find solutions to the challenges we've set it.
• A sense of status: They say we need to feel we have some importance in life or in the community, not necessarily a position of importance to a whole community;
it could be status as a mother or father. But they say we need to feel that at least someone values us.
• They say we need to have a sense of competence or achievement: That'll make sure we don't suffer from low self-esteem. They say we can achieve this by investigating and learning new things and improving the skills we already have. That will increase our sense of purpose in life, and make us more confident
that we're reasonably talented so we can feel good about ourselves.
It may well be that lots and lots of people's problems stem from the fact that they aren't getting a lot of those needs met; and rather than being helped or inspired to get them met, they're being put on medication, so their real problems don't go away. I know of far too many people who are very unhappy
because instead of getting help, they were just offered medication. And it's even worse when it happens to children.
Yes, what a dreadfully irresponsible thing to say!
But you have no idea whatsoever as to how much these ideas have in fact been subjected to peer-review and double-blind study - much to the probable indignation of people who view such things as just common sense.

Frankly, your extreme haste in condemning these things just seems irrational, especially given your virtual failure to be specific about exactly what it is you find objectionable, in terms of what the authors actually said that you think might harm people.
Moreover, the amount of heat in your protests suggests that you're for some reason under the impression that I linked to those things because Kaylee said she needed therapy and wanted help. If she had, believe me, I'd have linked to something rather more substantial. But in fact she merely said that what I said tended to give her "food for thought", and she wondered what my source for that post was, because she wanted to read more. Not a hint at needing help herself.
Iconoclast08 said:
The authors' claims go well beyond this according to that laughable REM-emotion blurb you posted and what they say on the Givens website, so you can cut
the minimization and LOL'ing at false targets of your own construction.
Again, if you want me to take you more seriously, be
specific about exactly what it is they say that bothers you so much that you thought it was irresponsible of me to link to it. And bearing in mind I linked to single pages, any links you followed from there that took you onto different topics are not my responsibility. I am, however, prepared to bear what you say about them in mind, if you are prepared to be
specific about exactly what it is they say that you find so objectionable, and why.
Iconoclast08 said:
Same straw man, different angle. You know the claims go beyond this. Stop making cartoon characterizations of my position because you can't respond appropriately.
Can't respond appropriately. Oh, the irony again! Does responding appropriately mean agree with you? You say this, and yet you
still refuse to do what I was asking you to do and be specific about exactly what they say that you find so objectionable and why! Why can't you do this?
Iconoclast08 said:
Based on your summary and the websites, it sounds like re-heated old ideas mixed with humanistic flair and a healthy dose of nonsense, which I stated before.
Of course there could be a smattering of micro-truths in the steaming pile of donkey dung. What I was going after were the half-baked ideas mixed with
the old ideas and mini-truths such as the silly REM-emotion business and other silly stuff mentioned on the website. But since you've misunderstood my
posts, there may be a chance that you've equally misunderstood and miscommunicated their book content.
Frankly, your response just verges on hysteria. To dismiss a 200-or-more-page book as "donkey dung", based on an
extremely brief summary of some of the things in it, makes it rather obvious you do not have an open mind. You completely disregard what I've said about the hype on the website and the book being much more down-to-earth. You still refuse to be specific about exactly what it is you're objecting to, instead preferring to just heap invective on the book and the website, when you haven't even read the book! Since you seem to be stuck in a virtually black-and-white mind-set where you are extremely hasty to vehemently condemn anything you're suspicious of, there probably isn't really any point in talking to you much more, since you probably won't budge an inch from your position, even to concede to my requests that you explain your position further.
Iconoclast08 said:
Here we go The ultimate "yo mama!" response. Those darned ideological questioners and skeptics of armchair conjecture!
It's interesting how you respond to criticism of your position
not by denying it, or taking steps to clarify why the accusation isn't true, but by simply making an unconstructive accusation in response.
And you again dismiss as "armchair conjecture" the work of practising therapists, people who've been therapists for years.
Iconoclast08 said:
One can certainly write a more simplified book for the layperson based on direct evidentiary support somewhere in the research literature. But where are
those articles containing evidence backing their souped-up claims (NOT the simple diamonds in the dunghill) directly? There's the rub. Don't make this
an all-or-nothing.
You're the one with the "all or nothing" approach. Because there are certain things on that website you don't like, you dismiss the whole lot as "donkey dung". Because you personally haven't been given an extensive list of references to prove what the books say has been well-researched, you dismiss almost everything in them as worthless.
Iconoclast08 said:
Nice deflection. The blurb you typed out was loaded with potential rival alternative explanations. You insinuate that I am an ideologue while you won't
so much as acknowledge the glaring problems you wrote about from the book? You'll just claim that ah, the critical thinking about research is outdated?
And no, the fundamentals of research methodology (i.e., internal and external validity and the threats posed to them, reliability, replication, parsimony,
etc.) haven't changed that radically in the past decade. Should I start relying on anecdotal stories instead? Are those superior to critical thinking and the scientific method?
"Glaring problems"?? This again from someone who hasn't actually read the book!
And you link to books purporting to be much more valid solid self-help books, and then when I ponder as to whether the information in them could be outdated, you say, "the critical thinking about research is outdated"? What? Are you suggesting that people might have bought those books thinking they were self-help books, only to discover they're just lengthy technical treatises on the research methods and findings of several years?

Or perhaps you never intended to suggest they were self-help books. Perhaps you'll have to remind me.
And what's with this straw man about the self-help books I prefer merely being full of anecdotes? You say this even after I give you an idea of what's in them and you get scathing about the non-anecdotal stuff in there.
Iconoclast08 said:
Oh, this is definitely justified as woo-ridden... I don't regret that comment one bit. Take a serious look at that REM nonsense you posted and the claims made on that website after you've read the outdated books on critical thinking about research.
Again, you refuse to be specific about exactly what it is you don't like about what they say.
Again, you make a hasty scornful condemnation without actually having read enough of the stuff to make a judgment.
Iconoclast08 said:
Ok... now we're getting somewhere. You're claiming the websites are just not measuring up to the books. If that's the case, and you truly are not accurately
representing what you typed out from the books... and they DO contain direct evidentiary support for their ideas, which you have not provided despite my
requests, then I will check out those books and prepare to undo my ideology and see the LIGHT can-I-get-a-hallelujah!!!
I'm only saying about the Human Givens website what I have said from the beginning - that it's full of hype. I said that from the very first time I linked to it. And I could quote all the references the books give for their findings, but again, I would probably be severely warned for breach of copyright, since there are so many of them. :-7
I have said about the books that a lot of the stuff in them is old tried-and-tested material. In your mind, old well-researched material means "repackaged and re-heated" and thus worthless, while new material means "laughable donkey dung". I'm not sure what it would take to encourage you to make a genuine resolve to read the books.
Iconoclast08 said:
Both. Mainly the unresearched highfalutin claims (the highly irresponsible part). So you did get the gist. You straw-manned me, then.
I have not said anything whatsoever that would indicate that any part of that book is "highly irresponsible". You have not given any indication whatsoever that you have any grounds to assert that anything they say is "highly irresponsible". Again, your posts are just full of invective, with little substance.
You may well have a very good reason for being so sceptical. But your over-hasty and over-dismissive scorn, along with your lack of explanation as to exactly what it is you object to, doesn't do your case any good. I suggest you change your approach.