Babbylonian
Penultimate Amazing
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Assuming that's accurate, it's certainly more damning of marriage, at least when approached from a religious point of view, with all the vows and other scriptural junk requiring/calling for permanence of the union.The statistic thrown out isn't entirely complete, is the problem.
It's not that 50% of all marriages end in divorce. It's that 50% of all FIRST marriages end in divorce. Something like 65% of all second marriages end in divorce, and 75% of all third or more marriages end in divorce.
I've seen links to the stats posted here before, but I don't recall one off the top of my head.
I have mixed feelings about marriage as an institution. Its origins as a means of formalizing the transfer of women as chattel between men are fairly repugnant. It does have its secular uses in terms of financially protecting stay-at-home parents who may sacrifice their long-term earning potential in order to improve the lots of their children, and its civil recognition helps in issues such as when one partner has to make legal/financial/medical decisions for the other when s/he is not able to do so.
Unfortunately, religious nonsense (such as that espoused by some in this thread) continues to get in the way of treating it as it should in our 1st-amendment-based society: A legal contract and little more.
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