Justinian2
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A lot of remarks about Amanda are nothing more than tattles. My childhood memories include those of tattle tales. I remember that they became more shunned than the people they ratted on. "Tattle tale, tattle tale, the children would call the informer. It became such a stigma to be branded a 'tattletale' that nobody ever ratted on each other.
Even young children were aware that ratting on another was a vile thing. I just wonder what ever happened to that youthful education. Why do some as adults see no wrong in being a tattle?
http://www.wisegeek.com/what-is-a-tattletale.htm
She did cartwheels. She kissed. She smoked marijuana. etc. Stuff like that all falls into the tattle category.
Even young children were aware that ratting on another was a vile thing. I just wonder what ever happened to that youthful education. Why do some as adults see no wrong in being a tattle?
http://www.wisegeek.com/what-is-a-tattletale.htm
The motivation for becoming a tattletale may be in part to maintain order in a household, or school environment, and also to garner attention for one’s self. A child may be encouraged not to be a tattletale, which can create complex issues. There are instances when a child should legitimately tell something but holds back for fear of being labeled as a tattletale. On the other hand, some children just can’t hold back and must “tell on” other children. They may also be particularly bad at keeping any kind of secrets.
Discriminating between when one should hold a secret and when one should inform an adult usually develops as a child ages. However, some adults display tattletale characteristics as well, having never outgrown the need to tell. In addition to seeking attention, an adult tattletale may also be motivated by other selfish reasons. He or she may sadistically enjoy the punishment or embarrassment of others, or “telling” may be a convenient way of getting rid of obstacles, e.g., other employees, to promotions at work, for example.
Their peers often dislike both the adult and child tattletale because they get other people in trouble. They may be avoided or shunned, which may actually make the person tattle more since need for attention is met with less frequency. Adults who do feel they should legitimately report something may fear the label of tattletale just as much as children do. If they observe illegal activities in the workplace or in their neighborhood, they still may not report because a tattler is often despised.
She did cartwheels. She kissed. She smoked marijuana. etc. Stuff like that all falls into the tattle category.
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