My dearest Azure,
Several years ago, I had the patience to tear into silly beliefs in detail, taking them seriously enough to analyze them, point out their flaws and errors, and try to persuade people holding these silly beliefs that these beliefs were unworthy of them.
As I have gotten older and, I hope, somewhat wiser, I've lost much of the patience needed to analyze this tripe and I rarely try to persuade people who are in this particular trap.
Frankly, I've got better things to do.
There are many younger, more energetic, and more informed skeptics who are happy, or at least ready, to do detailed battle with ignorance.
I'm in awe of how several participants of this forum come back again and again to keep ignorance from advancing even though they may not be able to force it back. My thanks and gratitude are with them.
As a curmudgeon-in-training, I'm learning that, while I can be disagreeable in general, I must pick my battles. I have developed a simple method: if something makes me sigh, I'll backhand it and growl a bit; if it really pisses me off, I'll bite its throat, tear out its heart, and shake it for good measure; if it outrages me, I'll do my best to obliterate it.
Someone becoming religious doesn't even rate a sigh. I've been religious - was for over ten years running - probably me at my most woo, and I was full of doubt nearly all of the time. While some of my religious friends and family have hurt me deeply, most of them are a joy to know. I have some idea of how hard life is for some, and religion can be quite a solace and support, even though I believe it to be hollow.
I wish that people weren't religious. I also wish that people did not suffer, that people were stronger, that people were kinder.
I do my best to seek out and shed my own superstitions and generally leave people to attend to their own.
I started reading Dustin-related threads several days ago. I sighed. I shook my head in disbelief. As usual, stuff like Dustin was spouting annoys and saddens me but I figure someone will jump into the fray and attempt to straighten him out (at least for the benefit of the children).
It became apparent that Dustin was obtuse, willfully ignorant, or disingenuous. Many people pointed out errors that he was making - he just plowed ahead.
I can walk away from this stuff, and was ready to, when he made his statements regarding government and religion, calling for state financing of evangelical Christian churches and for a fundamentalist Christian theocracy. That really angered me. Dustin changed from someone that made me a bit sad to someone embracing my enemies.
So, my little morsel of chocolate-dipped cactus, you may not like what I do or why I do it, but you were born to disappointment.
I'll do my best to fight the good fight in spite of your disdain.
Toodles!