@ Scorpion,
It comes over very clearly to me that you have a strong belief in the spirit world concept, and are making great efforts to rationalise that belief into something coherent, for the rest of us. Your starting point is the belief I think, triggered by an experience perhaps? You didn't rationalise your way into it - right?
Now as you may not know those moments when some experience propels a person into a faith, happens across many religions with the possible exception of Catholicism.
Is there a slightest chance you are deluded?