Then comes the EU and its impact on me is....?
Any goods you buy that come from the EU are cheaper because of the EU. You can travel abroad in the EU with minimal documentation. You need a passport at the border between the UK and the rest of the EU (except Ireland) but your drivers license and your car insurance are valid in the EU. Also, Your mobile phone operator cannot fleece you as it used to do when in other EU countries.
Your car is much safer than in the past because of EU standards. Food that you eat is safer because of EU safety standards.
Your employment rights are higher because of EU employment law. For example, most people cannot be made to work more than 48 hours per week because of the EU.
If you are a research scientist, you could be being funded by the EU science budget. If you work for an airline, your company benefits enormously from EU wide agreements on air travel.
You can be sure your Claret comes from Bordeaux, your Parma ham and your Stilton come from the correct regions.
If you want to live and work in Germany, France or even Romania, you can do so thanks to the EU.
There are down sides of course, you cannot drive your workers for 80 hours a week and you cannot call your dry cured ham that you make in a factory outside Rotherham “Parma ham”. Also, you can’t stop Romanians, Germans or French from coming here, taking jobs, paying taxes and improving the cultural diversity of the place.
It should be noted that, when I say “the EU”, as of now that includes the UK. All of the laws and regulations that lead to the things above were agreed in a decision making process in which the British government has huge influence. That influence will be going away in any scenario that is not Remain.