A'isha
Miss Schoolteacher
We had many mini-adventures, like trying to save a baby bird and transporting 3 Mexican gentlemen to farm country. He had made a deal to be my driver to mandatory meetings (which I would have attended anyway) when I lost my driver's license, and sometimes he would pick up other fares before dropping me off. I put off getting my license or a long time.I hope I was "a fare to remember!' Actually I know I was.
We talked a lot about God, some about Islam, and he'd switch on the radio sometimes and I noticed which songs he liked most: "My Sweet Lord," "Imagine" and "Dust in the Wind." And ELO's "Evil Woman," showing his not-so-spiritual side.
He asked me once, "Which do you think is more important, belief or prayer?" I said "prayer" and he seemed to agree. In a way we were both doubters, practicing a similar religion. He had literally been sent to my front door (by God? Or by the dispatcher?), at a time when I was reeling from several deaths and other traumas. He had had similar losses and maybe guilt because he hadn't gone to the mosque with his father that morning. One day he said, "Maybe God sent me to you as a test" and I answered, "Maybe God sent you to me as a gift." His response was, "Don't be naive." We had both fallen into a belief that we were in each other's lives for some kind of purpose.
Thank you for sharing your story and memories with me.
Sub-Saharan Africa has had horrible genocidal violence along tribal, not religious lines. Do they even have Scripture?
Yes. There is Christian violence in the Central African Republic and Uganda. Uganda especially has been the target of lobbying by American Evangelicals.
Wasn't a mosque blown up there?
Yes, unfortunately. And sadly it's still occurring. ISIS do not like Shias.
I dated an Iranian guy named Najafi - I have an affinity for the Middle East, I'm not sure why - I like the aesthetics of old places, narrow streets, plain doorways leading to secret, sumptuous courtyards behind earthen walls. I've seen such neighborhoods in Spain as well. I like mosaics, the abstract flowing or geometric designs, the non-figurative art. The most beautiful building I've ever seen is the Sheikh Lotfollah mosque in Isfahan. Guiltily, as I said, when I think of bombs raining on these treasures I wince. There is a lot of culture in the Middle East worth preserving.
One of my regrets is never having gotten the chance to visit my cousins in Egypt.