Vixen
Penultimate Amazing
I just confirmed phiwum's explanation in the post you quoted. It's getting very tiresome to discuss with you, especially since you seem to prefer to make the discussion about you and perceived attacks rather than address the rest of the points I've made to you. I also notice you didn't apologise for your accusations and mischaracterisations.
Ball's in your camp. Either discuss the issue or don't.
AIUI you are of the opinion that verbally challenging an intruder is 'chatting up' them, and you also elaborated a lurid 'what-if' scenario speciously involving rape.
You clearly have a massive chip on your shoulder if you think asserting yourself should lead to rape.
Bye, now.