I was criticizing the posters on this thread who were arguing that Iran SHOULD get nuclear weapons because other countries also have them..
This doesn't describe my position or others I think you're directing this at - perhaps I was reading myself into the comments of others here - but I think one thing that all of us can agree on is that nuclear proliferation is a risky business and that it is not desirable to see nukes proliferate anywhere really.
What's happening often in this thread is that people confronted with explanations from game theory, the self interest and sovereignty of nation states, balance of power, deterrence, etc react as if these
descriptions of self-interest and geopolitics are in fact expressions of partisan support for the nation whose actions and motives we are discussing.
I don't think that Iran SHOULD have nuclear weapons "because other countries also have them", but I recognize that other countries having them drive other countries to seek the same. I also recognize that nations, especially weaker and alienated ones, will see a nuclear deterrent as a very tempting way to immunize themselves from foreign interference.
To describe these dynamics is not to express support for Iran, or animus against the United States - it is simply an attempt to describe the forces at play.
And it is only with a dispassionate, clinical look at a problem in world affairs that we can come to understand best how to get the outcome we want.
I would think here that all posters in this thread think the Iranian government is not a "good" government (to simplify things) and that nuclear proliferation should be arrested as much as humanly possible. We all would like to see a better government for the Iranian people and less conflict in the middle east.
Our worldviews are so different however, and the routes to our shared goals so different, that some on your side seem to think that people on my end are actually working (un)consciously for the enemy. This does have a mirror on my side though so I cannot claim to be angelic: I do see some of the prescriptions and ideas presented from the other side as ultimately dangerous as well. For one example, I think the increasingly bellicose rhetoric and belligerent stance of America against Iran over the last decade have intensified the factors that would lead Iran to want a bomb.
I don't think that the people responsible for that rhetoric are working for the enemy though - I have no doubt they're sincere. They just have dangerous misconceptions and a reflexive, rather abstract way of looking at the way the world works.