Empathy and decency is one thing, but being supposed to no longer say "girlfriend" or "wife" or "mom" about your own is a whole new level of stupid. (And yes, there are instances of people saying "she's my wife" and someone helpfully correcting them to "partner.") Empathy only goes so far. You want to marry same sex? I'm not keeping you. You want to adopt? Fine by me. You want me to change random words because, boo-hoo, someone else has a "wife" or a "mom"? Well, cry me a river and then go grow up. You want to change the name of a medical condition like "colorblind"? Same deal.
That's no longer got anything to do with empathy. Empathy doesn't mean you need to bend over backwards to any and every request. See, "incel", for an example of just because someone is distressed, nobody else has to give him what he wants.
Besides, where the <bleep> is the empathy in the other direction? What if a wife actually wants to be called a "wife", not "partner"? You know, on account of the latter also including a girlfriend or even friend with benefits? Where's the empathy in that direction? Seems to me like one group is supposed to get all the empathy, and give none in return. Well, society doesn't work that way. It's a two-way street. Anyone who thinks it should only be a one-way street is a man baby who needs to grow up.