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SkeptiChick, allow me to add to that.

Murder keeps being used. Equate murder with pornography. Murder is an act. Pornography is a thing. THERE is the difference. Rape is an act. Pornography is a thing. There is no such thing as "virtual" murder...if so it's called playing games. There is no such thing as virtual rape. If so, it too is playing games.

Pornography is a thing, not an act.
 
Okay, here is where we differ. In my opinion, VCP is just a type of, subset if you will, of child pornography. I think it weakens laws that already exist to say that we should start calling *some* child porn okay...and I also think that if we do that, we may as well abandon child pornography laws altogether and just prosecute child abusers, because once we start tearing out teeth of laws already low on teeth, what is the point?

I've got no "ick factor" thing going here.

You have a point there, and I wouldn't actually be against that. I think it's analogous to decriminalizing drug use while still imposing harsh penalties to those who produce and distribute drugs.

Edit: after giving it a little more thought, I should retract this statement. Children aren't only harmed by the abuse itself. Children are further harmed by having images and videos of their abuse available for others to see. Again, this isn't the case with VCP. There is no child being exposed to hundreds of other people.
 
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No, I'm *not* differentiating between "real" child pornography and "virtual" child pornography, because the key word there isn't "real" or "virtual", it is pornography. Both are child pornography, or we wouldn't need "real" and "virtual" as qualifiers.

Whether something is real or not is very much important to the issue. If you're going to insist that there is NO difference between reality and fantasy, then I simply cannot continue in the discussion with you.

I'm sorry, but your arguments have crossed the line from being self contradictory to being outright nonsensical.
 
SkeptiChick, allow me to add to that.

Murder keeps being used. Equate murder with pornography. Murder is an act. Pornography is a thing. THERE is the difference. Rape is an act. Pornography is a thing. There is no such thing as "virtual" murder...if so it's called playing games. There is no such thing as virtual rape. If so, it too is playing games.

Pornography is a thing, not an act.
I'm sorry, but that doesn't fly with me. There most definitely is such a thing as "virtual murder". I see it on my television constantly. It's part of a show called "Law and Order". Virtual rape, exists as well. Again, I've seen it on that very same show on my television.

Do you not understand what the word "virtual" means?

As to your "pornography is a thing" statement... That's pure nonsense.
 
Whether something is real or not is very much important to the issue. If you're going to insist that there is NO difference between reality and fantasy, then I simply cannot continue in the discussion with you.

I'm sorry, but your arguments have crossed the line from being self contradictory to being outright nonsensical.

How is it nonsensical? You do realize that virtual pornography (child or otherwise) is a tangible thing, right? NO ONE can "ban" fantasy. That would be nonsensical.

If I'm nonsensical, then perhaps you should talk to the courts, because as it stands, there is a ban and in order to be exempt from that ban, artists/cartoonists or what have you, have to go to court if someone challenges their material...to prove artistic or other value.
 
I'm sorry, but that doesn't fly with me. There most definitely is such a thing as "virtual murder". I see it on my television constantly. It's part of a show called "Law and Order". Virtual rape, exists as well. Again, I've seen it on that very same show on my television.

Do you not understand what the word "virtual" means?

As to your "pornography is a thing" statement... That's pure nonsense.

What is it then? What is pornography, if not a thing?
 
Sugarb, it's nonsensical because people are worried about children being harmed. When someone abuses a child, they harm them. When someone takes pictures of a child being abused and allows other people to see them, they inflict even more harm upon the child.

Producing VCP doesn't harm any children. Distributing VCP doesn't humiliate a real child any further. Do you not see the difference?
 
How is it nonsensical? You do realize that virtual pornography (child or otherwise) is a tangible thing, right? NO ONE can "ban" fantasy. That would be nonsensical.
It is not necessarily a tangible thing, no. And here lies where I don't think you understand what the word virtual means.

In terms of computers, "virtual" means "not physically existing, but made by software to appear to do so". So in terms of digital files on a computer, no, it's not a tangible thing. Even the law takes that into account.

Something being virtual means it gives the appearance of, without actually being so. A "virtual absence" of something, for example, is the appearance of there being an absence without there actually being an absence.

If I'm nonsensical, then perhaps you should talk to the courts, because as it stands, there is a ban and in order to be exempt from that ban, artists/cartoonists or what have you, have to go to court if someone challenges their material...to prove artistic or other value.
Just because the law is nonsensical that does not make it okay for you to be nonsensical either. Especially when this whole discussion has to do with people not agreeing with the law...

What is it then? What is pornography, if not a thing?
It is a genre.

Saying that pornography is a thing is akin to saying that science fiction is a thing.

Sugarb, it's nonsensical because people are worried about children being harmed. When someone abuses a child, they harm them. When someone takes pictures of a child being abused and allows other people to see them, they inflict even more harm upon the child.

Producing VCP doesn't harm any children. Distributing VCP doesn't humiliate a real child any further. Do you not see the difference?
Thank you :) That's exactly the point. But for some reason, sugarb refuses to acknowledge that difference, and she refuses to tell us why, despite me asking several times.
 
Sugarb, it's nonsensical because people are worried about children being harmed. When someone abuses a child, they harm them. When someone takes pictures of a child being abused and allows other people to see them, they inflict even more harm upon the child.

Producing VCP doesn't harm any children. Distributing VCP doesn't humiliate a real child any further. Do you not see the difference?

YES, I do...but it is *still* child pornography, as I've said over and over again. So if child pornography is banned, then it should be banned. Now, on a personal level...oh nevermind. We aren't going to agree, and we don't have to agree. We're arguing two totally different things here apparently.

Child pornography is banned...check that...part of the arguments in banning child pornography had to do with not only harm to the children being photographed, but with obscenity and community standards. Part of the arguments accepted rather than discarded involved pedophilia, and how that material may influence pedophiles...but mainly? The issue is obscenity.

I didn't decide that any form of child pornography is obscene. The courts did. And yes, I realize that what congress did essentially was a workaround of the original court's finding. But...the court didn't remove that workaround. The courts have supported the workaround and works have been challenged. Some found to have artistic value, some not.

Even without proof of any kind of child pornography influencing anyone to commit a physical crime, the courts upheld the law. Why? I don't know what is expected of me here. Would it make things better if I said fine, virtual child pornography isn't really child pornography so that's okay? I'm sorry, but I can't. Well, I could...but do you want me to be dishonest?

If the courts are to decide that any particular forms of pornography are okay after all, you won't hear me griping about it. If the courts decide (as they should in my opinion) that possession is legal but only outlaw distribution of those types deemed unlawful now, you won't hear me griping about it.

*I* see the difference between actual photographs and altered or created images. Of COURSE I see the difference. I'm not ignorant...but how did this happen? As it stands now, the law has said those images aren't legal. Isn't the burden of proof then supposed to fall on those wanting the images legal? I happen to agree with the law. I'm sorry if that offends anyone. If the laws change...then I hope that whomever argues to legalize "virtual" child pornography at least shows some consistency and argues that all bans on pornography of any kind are unnecessary because the criminal code already addresses those acts. I bet that won't be what is argued, though. You see? Those wanting to ban all porn are often ridiculed for that being their pet subject...but those NOT wanting child pornography of whatever kind banned don't really make their arguments much differently. Not really.

At any rate, I have no personal stake in the outcome. I don't view child porn of any kind, don't collect it, don't have anything to do with it...I don't even have a child to worry about having it's image altered and plastered all over the internet. I don't spend any part of my days on the lookout for pedophiles. So maybe I should just say it doesn't matter.

But it does. For some reasons that I personally consider important. I think, though, that it's time (past time probably) for me to hush on this matter.

Good conversation, folks. Thanks :)
 
It is not necessarily a tangible thing, no. And here lies where I don't think you understand what the word virtual means.

In terms of computers, "virtual" means "not physically existing, but made by software to appear to do so". So in terms of digital files on a computer, no, it's not a tangible thing. Even the law takes that into account.

Something being virtual means it gives the appearance of, without actually being so. A "virtual absence" of something, for example, is the appearance of there being an absence without there actually being an absence.

Just because the law is nonsensical that does not make it okay for you to be nonsensical either. Especially when this whole discussion has to do with people not agreeing with the law...

It is a genre.

Saying that pornography is a thing is akin to saying that science fiction is a thing.

Thank you :) That's exactly the point. But for some reason, sugarb refuses to acknowledge that difference, and she refuses to tell us why, despite me asking several times.

I have acknowledged the difference, multiple times. I'm sorry if by disagreeing that somehow means I'm not answering your question. But I have. Repeatedly.
 
YES, I do...but it is *still* child pornography, as I've said over and over again. So if child pornography is banned, then it should be banned.

VCP may be banned, but is it wrong? Is it harmful? I think that is what's being asked here.
 
No, I'm *not* differentiating between "real" child pornography and "virtual" child pornography, because the key word there isn't "real" or "virtual", it is pornography. Both are child pornography, or we wouldn't need "real" and "virtual" as qualifiers.


Does this mean you see the actual harm to children is being irrelevant?
 
I have absolutely no doubt whatsoever that there are many, many people out there who are, on a daily basis, moved to molest children by external stimuli, admittedly probably with a predisposition to molest already, but not necessarily. Those stimuli could comprise one or a number from a multitiude, but that multitude undoubtedly includes child porn, possibly virtual child porn, which can be considered a major subset of all such stimuli.

Ahh, well if you've pondered it, I suppose the discussion is over. No evidence required after all.
 
I have acknowledged the difference, multiple times. I'm sorry if by disagreeing that somehow means I'm not answering your question. But I have. Repeatedly.
No, I'm sorry, but you're contradicting yourself.

Proof of you outright refusing to acknowledge that there is a difference:
No, I'm *not* differentiating between "real" child pornography and "virtual" child pornography, because the key word there isn't "real" or "virtual", it is pornography. Both are child pornography, or we wouldn't need "real" and "virtual" as qualifiers.
 
No, I'm sorry, but you're contradicting yourself.

Proof of you outright refusing to acknowledge that there is a difference:

That is proof of nothing of the sort, SkeptiChick. Look, I don't know why you're wanting to make something out of my words that aren't there...but perhaps this will make it easier for you to understand. A spoon and a fork are not the exact same thing, but they are both still silverware. "Real" child porn and "virtual" child porn aren't the exact same thing, but they are both still child pornography. I do not see what is so hard to grasp in that.

And MontagK505, if that was a serious question, I just don't know what to say.
 
That is proof of nothing of the sort, SkeptiChick. Look, I don't know why you're wanting to make something out of my words that aren't there...but perhaps this will make it easier for you to understand. A spoon and a fork are not the exact same thing, but they are both still silverware. "Real" child porn and "virtual" child porn aren't the exact same thing, but they are both still child pornography. I do not see what is so hard to grasp in that.

So where's the child in virtual pornography? Which child was made to take their clothes off? Which child was make to perform sexual acts? Which child was recorded? Which child had the recordings of them sold? Where is the child in the child pornography?
 
A spoon and a fork are not the exact same thing, but they are both still silverware. "Real" child porn and "virtual" child porn aren't the exact same thing, but they are both still child pornography. I do not see what is so hard to grasp in that.

Nobody is arguing that A and B are not subsets of C. What is being argued is that just because A is bad does not mean C is also bad.
 
That is proof of nothing of the sort, SkeptiChick. Look, I don't know why you're wanting to make something out of my words that aren't there...but perhaps this will make it easier for you to understand. A spoon and a fork are not the exact same thing, but they are both still silverware. "Real" child porn and "virtual" child porn aren't the exact same thing, but they are both still child pornography. I do not see what is so hard to grasp in that.
It is proof that you are pointedly refusing to differentiate between two subjects. You outright said "I'm *not* differentiating". And now you expect people to believe that you are differentiating?

I'm not "wanting to make something out of your words". I want you to understand how your words are coming across, and make sure they're saying exactly what you mean, because they're coming across as meaning something I take extreme exception to and I'd hope that you don't actually hold such beliefs.

The problem is that by applying the logic you're using above ("real" child porn and "virtual" child porn aren't the exact same thing, but they are both still child pornography), ALL pornography should be treated the same as child pornography simply because child pornography is pornography (Argument by Generalization).

You are ignoring the fact that there are fundamental differences between the two, refusing to address arguments made based upon those differences, and instead, responding to those arguments as if they are about both instead of just one or the other. In other words, you are conflating the issues, and now doing so on purpose (I say this because the problem with the conflation has been pointed out to you several times, and you continue to ignore it).

And MontagK505, if that was a serious question, I just don't know what to say.
I can certainly understand why he asks that question. It's a question that's running through my mind as well.

You only seem to be concerned about YOUR feelings on the subject. You're failing to understand that if YOUR feelings on the subject are applied to the world around you, it causes harm. Just like the current law causes harm. Demonstrable harm, with comic book collectors being thrown in jail and marked as pedophiles for life when they've never even touched a child, let alone abused one. You don't seem to care enough about that harm to adjust your view, or at least concede that your view should not be applied to people outside yourself without the benefits outweighing the risks. And you have been shown, both by people here, and through your own research, that the benefits do not outweigh the risks since there's no causal relationship between pedophiles and child porn (of any sort).

You find the topic of children involved in sexual scenes offensive and obscene. Great. I certainly respect that. You find the topic so offensive that you're intolerant of fake depictions of such material -- i.e. cartoons, computer renderings, etc.. Fine. I respect that as well. I'm not a fan of the subject matter either.

The problem is that you then suppose that this offense is justification for the law including "virtual" child porn under the same set of laws as "real" child porn and ignoring those same differences that we have been discussing here. Appealing to emotion -- a logical fallacy. I happen to find oatmeal offensive and obscene. I refuse to eat it, or even look at it. You won't find me supporting a law to ban it based upon those grounds though...

You also then turn around and use the law as justification for your appeal to emotion, despite the flaws in the logic that have been pointed out to you. This is appealing to authority and begging the question at the same time. If there was a law saying that oatmeal is banned because "the government" found oatmeal offensive and obscene, does that actually mean that oatmeal should be banned? Tons of laws get through unchallenged that shouldn't be on the books. It doesn't make those laws just. I'm sorry, it simply doesn't. Unjust laws exist.

Personally, I have a huge problem with obscenity laws in general. I feel that it is completely and utterly ridiculous for the government to dictate what is "decent" and what is "obscene". These are subjective and personal moral judgements made largely about subjects that are incapable of causing harm in and of themselves. I feel that the law should only step in when harm is demonstrable. When it comes to virtual child porn... Yes, I find the stuff disgusting, and horrific, and nauseating, and distasteful, and offensive, and obscene. But it harms no one. So I will defend the right to create it, to distribute it, and to own it.

I will not defend the production, distribution, or ownership of real child porn. Ever. Under any circumstance. Because someone is suffering demonstrable harm in it's creation, distribution, and viewing.

And this is why differentiation between "real" child porn and "virtual" child porn is important, no matter how many times you insist that it is not (argument by repetition, by the way).
 
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It has honestly been running through any of your minds that I don't care about the HARM to children? Seriously? Because it hasn't been running through my mind that any of you are advocating a type of child pornography because you collect it or use it or like it. It seems to me the debate has gone this way before, with another person being accused of something of that nature...and nobody like that too well.

But okay. Whatever. I disagree that virtual child pornography is not pornography. Somebody may want to look up the definition of pornography, since I am not allowed to say a spoon and a fork are both silverware.

I will not get into this kind of rudeness. We went through it a few times already...and I must admit that I have to wonder why Southwind17 was attacked for his attitude when I really don't see much difference right now on the part of some people on the other side. But I am simply not allowed to engage in this kind of thing...in fact, none of us are supposed to bicker...but that is beside the point.

I am truly sorry that disagreeing and saying that children should not be depicted in pornography (and THAT is the difference in the genres of pornography...child pornography is different from adult pornography, fluff pornography or whatever you want to call it, adult erotic, literary erotica and whatever else you can come up with...because it involves children. As a reality, as a concept, doesn't matter. It is children.

You accuse me of only caring about how *I* feel...when I have stated that I have yet to reveal how I personally in my own life feel about these things. We are discussing a law, not feelings. I have been as polite as I can be, and yes, this is an emotional topic, but I have yet to resort to rudeness, call anybody's thoughts "ridiculous", or anything of that nature...I have strived to keep my emotion out of this. But here you go. Here is my emotion. And that is as far as it will go.

I do not appreciate the suggestion that perhaps I don't care about harm to real children. That is as disgusting coming from one side as it is the other. But feel free to think that's what I feel. The law is on your side there.
 
It has honestly been running through any of your minds that I don't care about the HARM to children? Seriously? Because it hasn't been running through my mind that any of you are advocating a type of child pornography because you collect it or use it or like it. It seems to me the debate has gone this way before, with another person being accused of something of that nature...and nobody like that too well.
Don't care, as in are not factoring the existence or non-existence of that harm into the equation, even when confronted directly with that existence or non-existence. Refusing to address it makes it seem as if it does not matter.

No one has been advocating child pornography.

But okay. Whatever. I disagree that virtual child pornography is not pornography. Somebody may want to look up the definition of pornography, since I am not allowed to say a spoon and a fork are both silverware.
No one said that virtual child pornography was not pornography. You're making strawmen here...

I will not get into this kind of rudeness. We went through it a few times already...and I must admit that I have to wonder why Southwind17 was attacked for his attitude when I really don't see much difference right now on the part of some people on the other side. But I am simply not allowed to engage in this kind of thing...in fact, none of us are supposed to bicker...but that is beside the point.
Rudeness?? It is rude to point out the logical fallacies in someone's arguments? Since when?

I am truly sorry that disagreeing and saying that children should not be depicted in pornography (and THAT is the difference in the genres of pornography...child pornography is different from adult pornography, fluff pornography or whatever you want to call it, adult erotic, literary erotica and whatever else you can come up with...because it involves children. As a reality, as a concept, doesn't matter. It is children.
There's nothing wrong with you personally objecting to children being depicted in child pornography. But the logic you have been applying to justify the law, and are STILL applying, that the difference between real child pornography and virtual DOESN'T matter, at all, period is flawed. You may not like that it's flawed, but it is flawed. I've cited the fallacies for you so that you can look them up.

You accuse me of only caring about how *I* feel...when I have stated that I have yet to reveal how I personally in my own life feel about these things. We are discussing a law, not feelings. I have been as polite as I can be, and yes, this is an emotional topic, but I have yet to resort to rudeness, call anybody's thoughts "ridiculous", or anything of that nature...I have strived to keep my emotion out of this. But here you go. Here is my emotion. And that is as far as it will go.
Calling an argument ridiculous is not rudeness, at least as far as "rudeness" is defined by the MA of this forum. I have been quite measured in my responses to you, actually, and made sure only to attack the arguments you have made, and not make any direct aspersions about your person.

I'm sorry if you don't like what's been said to you, but you need to understand that your statements have come across as fairly offensive to some people as well, just for different reasons.

I do not appreciate the suggestion that perhaps I don't care about harm to real children. That is as disgusting coming from one side as it is the other. But feel free to think that's what I feel. The law is on your side there.
Your arguments have made it appear as if you do not care about harm, in so far as you do not care to differentiate between something that does actually cause harm and something that does not. Your arguments also have made it appear as if you do not care about the harm that banning an otherwise harmless material causes.

Personally, I do not appreciate the suggestion that someone is criminal for their thoughts alone. I find that disgusting.
 

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