My question is not about the calculations, but about the force that is acting on the coin to make the predicted results happen. ...
But what actually controls the motion of the coin in such a way that the landings "organize themselves," after enough trials, into about half heads, half tails? ...
I know what affects the motion of the coin to prevent it from floating up to the ceiling for example, but what affects the motion of the coin to prevent it from landing heads up every time for one billion tosses in a row? ...
The conversation seems to me to have gotten a bit far afield.
The question here, and please correct me if I've misunderstood you, seems to be, "what characteristic of the universe forces probabilistic predictions to come out correct?"
The answer appears to me to lie behind the fact that it is an inherent characteristic of the universe that when a process (that is, a sequence of operations or events with a defined beginning and ending) has alternative potential results (endings), and the process can be repeated, there will be a potential for each alternative to occur at each repeated trial of the process. However, in each trial, only one of the alternatives will be observed (unless you are into alternative universes, and even then, the "you" that you will continue to think of as "you" will observe only one of them in any one universe). The details of the process (objects involved, forces that affect those objects, particular states chosen as the "beginning" and "ending" of the process) will determine not only the number and type of alternatives, but also how likely each alternative is with respect to the (presumably) unity probability that there will be
some result. (Note that if this is not a unity probability, then you cannot clearly define an "ending" state, and discussion of probability would be moot.)
Now, note that we've invoked objects, forces, and states; clearly, we are discussing physics here. Thus, the process is governed by physical laws, which are, by and large, and as far as we have been able to observe, essentially immutable over both space and time (that is, over a long enough series of trials, I'll get the same number of heads and tails today as I will tomorrow, and I'll get the same number at home as I will at the bar). This has exceptions, but we know about most of those, too (for example, if my coin is brass on one side and iron on the other, and I flip it over a magnet, it will alter the probabilities).
So basically, what I'm saying is that the fact that such probability calculations work so well is a consequence of the fact that we live in a universe in which physical law determines the outcome of the overwhelming majority of, if not all, processes, and in which physical law is essentially immutable. This is borne out by the fact that we seem to be able to assign such probabilities to the behavior of the smallest constituents of matter/mass/material and force/energy/influence, and when we observe the behavior of these constituents, we never observe behavior in violation of these probabilities; when we do, we go looking for the new law that governs this unexpected behavior, modifying our earlier understanding.
This is a kind of determinism, but it is not philosophical determinism; at the quantum level, we can predict the probability that a process will attain various alternative states extremely accurately, but we cannot predict which alternative any particular trial will result in. Just as we cannot predict whether the coin will come up heads or tails, but we can predict that (absent some physical force that we are not aware of) it will come up heads half the time and tails the other half.
This appears to me, in other words, to be the result of two fundamental characteristics of the universe that exist
a priori, that is, without any underlying "machinery" or "cause:"
1. The behavior of objects, systems, and processes is governed by immutable physical laws; and
2. These laws specify the probability that various fundamental processes will result in various alternatives.
Rather a long answer for what is actually a rather deep question, IMHO. Hope it was worth your while to read.