Sure it is, because asking a question is a separate act. It requires a separate response on the part of the person asked the question. How can you think otherwise?
And asking the question is not immoral if much good can result from it. I can't help but notice that you've simply ignored logic about the overall change in the immorality of the universe by committing or threatening to commit Act A, then committing Act C (asking the question), and thereby preventing Act B, because the person questioned wants to avoid Act A or a repeat of Act A. Act C can positively impact the overall morality of the universe and thus can be moral. The facts claimed in post #903, which you continue to just ignore, would seem to prove several such cases.
you're saying that there are circumstances in which Act A is all right despite saying earlier that no such circumstance exists.
Again, I point out that a reading of various definitions of moral relativism leads me to believe that the term "circumstance" as used in those definitions is not what is meant by your use of "circumstance" in the example here.
A moral relativist believes that Act A can be moral in one culture but immoral in a different culture. I'm not suggesting that. Are you? I think hurting a person is a bad thing regardless of culture. That seems to be what you've been claiming. That it bad in a universal sense, just as our founding fathers held there were universal truths. I think mass murder is similarly a bad thing regardless of culture. Don't you? A moral relativist would argue that's not always true. THAT is the definition of moral relativism. Here:
http://www.moral-relativism.com/ "Moral relativism is the view that ethical standards, morality, and positions of right or wrong
are culturally based and therefore subject to a person's individual choice."
http://blogcritics.org/culture/article/moral-relativism/ "The very definition of moral relativism — a view in which moral standards are not absolute or universal, instead
emerging from varied social customs, laws, religious beliefs, etc ..."
http://plato.stanford.edu/entries/moral-relativism/ "The term ‘moral relativism’ is understood in a variety of ways. Most often it is associated with an empirical thesis that there are deep and widespread moral disagreements and a metaethical thesis that the truth or justification of moral judgments is not absolute,
but relative to some group of persons."
http://www.essortment.com/all/philosophicalis_rcga.htm "In a rural village 50 miles east of Calcutta, a mother kills her newborn baby girl without threat of scorn, punishment, or criticism of her morality from her community. Indeed, the practice of infanticide is commonplace in poverty-stricken regions of India, China, and other nations. Many outside observers of this culture would label this act murder and condemn the woman as an immoral person deserving penalization.
The theory of moral relativism, however, holds that the mother has committed no violation because she was acting in accord with the societal standards of her culture."