Let me get this straight.
You'll slap them. They may slap you back. If they do, rinse and repeat, till they stop.
Let's say that there are 2000 Talibanis on each safe haven. You kill 2000, let's say some are inocent. They're considered martyrs. Violence restarts.
You'll slap them. They may slap you back. If they do, rinse and repeat, till they stop.
Pavlov did the test with dogs. Dogs won't slap back, aye? No, they do. Dogs bite. But dogs, in fact, can't actually take posession of such hammers of destruction. Talibans can, eventually, get hold of some technology, say, biological warfare. And they strike back.
Again.
You'll slap them. They may slap you back. If they do, rinse and repeat, till they stop.
It will never end. Never. You'll never get the desired result cause either you eliminate the idea that they are right or you eliminate the culprits as exactly as possible. No colateral damage would be allowed. How can you prove someone is wrong in such a situation? Can you tell a Talibani from another? You can't. You're not omnipotent, nor omniscient. And you'll fail if you try.
In fact, I believe that, due to the fact that you suggest it, you'd beat your kids to teach them. You'll beat your wife to prove your point.
And I hope they retaliate.