That's a bit harsh, old chum.
What NK did to this kid is monstrous. But there was no reason in the world for him to be there. Everyone knows the regime is insane, and it has locked up U.S. citizens previously on false or exaggerated charges. Moreover, the U.S. is actually at war, literally, with NK; the Korean War ended with a truce, but there has never been a peace treaty. This isn't any different from somebody getting kidnapped by warlords in Yemen or Somalia. If you play chicken with a drunken truck driver, it shouldn't be a surprise when you get flattened. The world is full of places where you can have an adventure and still get home.