The problem is that this country hasn't or won't leave race behind. I don't even know how to word the examples of which I'm thinking wherein someone wouldn't bring race into the conversation. For example, democrats have a legitimate disagreement with former Florida Representative Allan West. No problem on a policy level, whether you agree with the democrats or not. It's a matter of trying to find the best answers for the country. So why do many call him a traitor to his race or worse?
Or, many Republicans have legitimate complaints about the President's policies and goals. Why does the conversation often devolve into a race issue? It's irrelevant - it's about trying to find what is best for the country.
Please note that I'm talking here about what I believe are sincere people that really do care about the future of the US. Yes, there are pinheads on both sides, but I honestly think they're in the minority.
Let's take a step further - let's say that I say that I can't stand to look at a particular white politician (since I'm generically white [more accurately, in the minority group German-Hungarian, but who cares]) because they irritate the living daylights out of me - I've said that many times about members of both parties*. Does that make me bigoted against white people? Or is it because I can't get a straight, simple answer out of them? Not that the solutions are simple, but the way a question is answered should be.
*Note to people running for office in all parties: the way to get my vote is NOT to be hanging around near my place of employment at 0700 on Election Day before I've had my first of coffee, and saying in a way too loud voice: "Hi! I'm so-and-so and I'm running for..."