If the towers had been brought down by both Al Qaeda AND the 'Rainbow Warriors' (a hypothetical violent ideological group of extremist gays whose goal is to subjugate all "breeders"), then you would have a point. In that case, opening a massive "gay center" right next to ground zero would be tasteless - it would be well within their rights, but still tasteless.
The fact of the matter is that the towers weren't brought down by a group of violent gays using some specific gay ideology (if there is such a thing) as justification for doing so.
No, it was brought down by Al Qaeda alone, who
want you to react like anti-Muslim bigots, so that America looks like an intolerant nation that
no Muslims will ever feel it's worth living alongside or amongst you, because they'll all be tarred with the same hateful brush. In fact, the whole point of Terrorism, getting your enemy to react in fear and loathing and create a massively disproportionate response, especially a binary "Us or Them" response which drives support away from your side and towards the terrorists, just flies over your head, doesn't it...?
And do you know what is really disrespectful to the dead of 9/11? To every Muslim, Christian, Atheist and Jew, gay or straight who were living and working in New York City together, and killed en-masse for a cause none of them choose? It's using the place where they were killed to give Bin Laden
exactly what he wanted when he tried to start a war of cultures with that atrocity.
And before you answer that point, just answer this one first; Are you honest enough to accept that it is an objective
fact that there will not be two "Mosques", so there can't be any numerical triumphalism intended? And that the single "Mosque" is in fact a community centre which merely
includes a place where Muslims can pray? And it won't have overt Islamic artwork outside, despite what you've been told? And it's
not visible from Ground Zero, nor was it
ever planned to be opened on September the 11th? They aren't even part of the same sect as Al Qaeda, nor did they find it impossible to make a public and tolerant statement about homosexuality like the lying, bigoted rabble rousers were hoping they couldn't ... just answer this; when everything you've been incensed by is a lie, just what will it take for you to open your eyes, and not willingly divide yourself from your fellow Americans, who simply happen to be of the Muslim faith?
E pluribus unum remember? Or do you no longer believe in the
United States?