And, remember Dann, you started the ad homs--they are the tool of those who have weak arguments and big egos to protect. Your supporters seem to only support with ad homs --no substance; that makes you look like you're on the side of the actual people who "need to grow up". Now, I try not to start with ad homs, but I'm glad to join in to a rousing game of "you're mother wears army boots", and I am known to go for the jugular. (This always makes me feel a little guilty, because generally I like the members of this forum; besides I'd probably even agree with you on most things other than what the original article implied and who the skeptics are that "need to grow up" And, of course, I also noted that you confused correlation with causation. That's a common error, but you shouldn't have compounded it by acting as if you believed yourself to be more "grown up" than others--including Randi (!?). Humility can be more influential than hubris.) And though I wasn't the original letter writer, I am flattered that you thought I was. If I spoke like her, it might be because I had just gone back to read the quote that got you so worked up that you needed to start a thread about skeptics needing to grow up.
No, articulett, the ad hominems, and in particular the one that gets you so upset that you have to resort to using them yourself all the time, started
here, in James Randi’s weekly newsletter. You have complained a number of times that I tell
skeptics to
grow up, and you have pretended that I
was the one who started this condescending way of talking to and about others, and at the same time you have referred to James Randi as if he were a saint, the embodiment of immaculate truth. Well ….. he isn’t. (And he would probably be the first to deny it, I think. Like I have said before, I don’t hold
your arguments against him.)
In other words: I have taken the condescending, childish title from a piece written by a person admired by most sceptics, and you in particular, and turned it against the skeptics. A rather obvious thing to do, I think: If they are so fond of the phrase, let’s see how they react when I apply it to them!
And what a reaction! If there is one thing that
brights don’t seem to be, it’s bright!
When people alter their views it's rarely by someone who attacks. People are more likely to change their views when someone they likes points out commonalities they share and then defines the actual area of disagreement. Then questions can be utilized to prod people towards your position, but you also have to show a willingness to be prodded toward theirs. Attacking people just makes them think you are a jerk and no one learns a thing. (I'm not saying that flame-wars can't be fun, but that's a game where I don't play nice.) Just think of viewpoints where you changed your mind (if that has ever happened)...Have you ever had an "evolution of thought"?-
No, I was born this way, all my concepts and ideas were fully formed and I never had to change a single one of them. Will you pleas get to the point!?
-Did the thinking start with someone's assertion that you needed to grow up and be more like them? Did sarcasm and ad homs prod your thinking along.
Well, actually, more or less. When you are confronted with people who present themselves as superior, it is very often necessary to confront them with their own arrogance. This is what I did in this case, and I’m quite happy with the way things worked out!
But notice that this is not my recommendation for how to persuade people of something, this is not my idea of how to present an argument in general. I could have chosen a much more
humble attitude, and then
you would not have been as offended on behalf of Randi, scepticism and the tool of reason! As it was, however, you were, but that was your choice.
They don't do it for anyone else either.
It is actually
very annoying when you behave like a school teacher and pretend that because you have asked a question that even the most stupid (but very well-behaved (which I’m not)) child would know the required answer to, then it automatically follows that that is the answer you’ll get. I’m sorry, but you have to realize that I’m
not one of your students and you can’t expect me to behave as if you had the power to grade and fail me. You don’t!
So it's important to consider your goal prior to posting.
Yes, it is, isn’t it?!
Now, I'm guessing that despite their ability to communicate effectively, your increasingly fewer supporters buy the basic premise that skeptics who point out the suffering caused by belief are pointing out something inconsequential as opposed the more pressing matter (to you) of poverty.
You’re not guessing, you’re pretending that you don’t know that Gurdur and Athon aren’t and never were my
supporters, but just happened to agree with my objections to the article
Time to grow up. That they also happened to disagree with you is no coincidence, but it is also no reason to think that it is a question of supporting
me, dann, – and not simply those of my arguments that they tend to agree with! They also aren’t getting
”increasingly fewer”, as far as I can see, but many of the people who disagree with you and agree with my arguments against you do not share my view on politics in general. This is another reason why I want you to consider your words about them.
They don’t support
me or even
all of my arguments presented in this thread. Pretending that they do, does not make it so.
They also don’t
”buy the basic premise that skeptics who point out the suffering caused by belief are pointing out something inconsequential”. No matter how many times you repeat it, that never
was the basic premise. Randi did not ‘point out’ the suffering suffering caused by belief. He and Sarah L. Hubscher, with whom he agreed
“enthusiastically”, actually succeeded in
misrepresenting an article from the CSM when they said:
“The article implies that many of these children were living with step-parents or extended family members who no longer wanted to have to support them and so, voila, an easily-explained incident such as a broken glass or a still-born child becomes an excuse to turn them out of home as practitioners of black magic.”
Nothing in the article implies that Frida Tshama, who
”was forced to live on the street after her aunt kicked her out of the house” with the excuse that she had broken a glass, was one of the children accused of being
”practitioners of black magic.”
"I was staying with my aunt, and one day I was cleaning the house, and a glass that was on the table fell and broke," she says. "My aunt asked me to get out of the house. If I stay, she will poison me."
So let us take another look at this sentence again:
“The article implies that many of these children were living with step-parents or extended family members”
Correct!
”who no longer wanted to have to support them”
Well, I would have phrased it differently:
who no longer could support them and
therefore didn’t want to. The article does not make a secret of that!
”and so, voila, an easily-explained incident such as a broken glass or a still-born child becomes an excuse to turn them out of home”
Yes!!! A fairly innocent incident is used as an excuse to kick them out.
”as practitioners of black magic.”
No! Sometimes witchcraft is used as an excuse, sometimes it isn’t!
The broken glass in itself or simply asking for something to eat becomes the excuse!!! The belief in black magic is immaterial for this outcome. It contributes nothing essential to the practice of getting rid of the children that you can’t feed, which is why I chose to call it merely an
”added insult”.
The CSM article here
The article in James Randi’s newsletter here
But from my point of view that just shows how people are almost blinded to the role belief plays in tragedies.
No surprise there! From mine it just shows how some sceptics are so blinded by their preoccupation with superstition and religion that they attribute a very exaggerated importance to it in cases where the calamity isn’t really a religious or superstitious one, but just happens to take place among religious/suspicious people which, of course, adds a certain flavour to the whole thing.
It makes Randi and the letter writer's statement all the more significant--and your missing the point and presuming moral superiority all the more ironic.
Repeating it
still does not make it so!
If you want to claim that poverty is the true cause of kids being called witches and/or that belief has little to do with the issue, then I suggest that you bone up on the difference between correlation and causation.
I’m beginning to get a little desperate now! Could somebody help me explain to articulett that she hasn’t once even indicated that she understands what I’ve been saying the whole time. Let me repeat it again:
Belief has very much to do with kids being called witches, and very little to do with kids being left in the street to fend for themselves! Correlation and causation, my ….!
Before determining that Randi, and the letter write, and all those who agree with the letter writer and all those willing to stand up to your self important post need to "grow up"—
No, those are words that are inadmissible about
repspectful people, right?
Starving
Africans, need to
grow up! Skeptics
don't!
you might want to get your definitions down first.
I have, you haven’t! Your ad hominems are all you have.
And you might want to consider the fact that you took peoples failure to mention poverty as an indication that they were unaware of the role it played.
No, I mightn’t since I didn’t.
"... the fact ..." (!)
Moreover, you took their mentioning of belief as something that they mentioned for superfluous reasons.
No, I didn’t.
The reasons aren't superfluous.
They aren’t even
reasons, they are
excuses. At least Randi and Hubscher were aware of
that.
Your own post shows how people are "programmed" to overlook the damage it causes.
Yes, Mam, if you say so, Mam, I’ll go and stand in the corner.