This isn't possible. Engineering involves a large amount of probability and statistics. Most capacities (for design and analysis) are based upon a minimum percentile of similar members failing at a stress greater than their respective capacity. There are further reductions on the susceptibility to loss of strength due to contractor error (this is particularly true in anchor bolts and welding). Steel mills will always supply steel that is stronger than what is specified, sometimes even selling a higher grade as a lower grade (this is common with A572 and A36).
Assuming that the structure is correctly designed and, even more fantastical: constructed correctly, there is no way to know exactly what the capacity of each individual element is. And if the building was designed with economy in mind (as most are), then there are various failure modes with similar capacities. Statistical guesses can be made, sure, but it's not relevant.
Does this CONNECTOR fail? Does the model fail globally when x number of connections fail? Is there anything that can be done to easily prevent this collapse initiation in the future? These are the questions that engineers are interested in. Not in recreating the exact conditions, because that is impossible and a pointless waste of resources to boot.
Without these exact capacities, there is no way to model exactly what happened or the ridiculous "live test" simulation that you have suggested. They could create an enveloped test, but the idea that they can come up with the exact point, like the point at which water boils, is just plain flat out ridiculous and belies a complete ignorance of how engineering works.