The Sensitive Issue of Circumcision

Hang on. I might be missing the point here, in which case please feel free to put me straight, but putting aside medical/religious/cultural reasons, what possible motivations would a male adult have for opting for circumcision?

I can't think of any other than the usual "I orgasm too quick/ my penis smells so girls don't give me oral sex" nonsense that pro-circumcision types are so quick to conjure.

That is the point -- the vast majority of adult men have no motivation to do so, and in fact have a very strong motivation NOT to. In particular, they know that their foreskin is not just a useless flap of skin.

Skeptigirl, it seemed to me, is asserting that it isn't a big deal one way or the other, which is categorically untrue. I don't care what any "study" shows -- the fact that you don't see natural men getting circumcisions except in extreme cases tells me it is a big deal.
 
Skeptigirl, it seemed to me, is asserting that it isn't a big deal one way or the other, which is categorically untrue. I don't care what any "study" shows -- the fact that you don't see natural men getting circumcisions except in extreme cases tells me it is a big deal.

But don't you see how your logic is flawed? If it isn't a big deal one way or the other then why would an adult may choose to be circumcised? Therefore, the fact that you don't see natural men getting circumcisions except in extreme cases simply confirms that. Your logic is a little like arguing that the fact that most adult males don't choose to play dominoes of a Sunday afternoon means that playing dominoes of a Sunday afternoon must be big deal. It's certainly not something I can get excited about one way or the other, dominoes, that is.
 
To put it more clearly if someone tried to circumcise me against my will I would use whatever force I needed to, up to and including lethal force, to stop them. Just because kids that do get the chop suffer from cognitive dissonance doesn't mean that the act is justified.

And Joe, I think you are just as biased as Skeptigirl. We'll all just have to agree to disagree on this one. Frankly I do think there are bigger problems in the world (like the fact that drugs are illegal).
 
But don't you see how your logic is flawed? If it isn't a big deal one way or the other then why would an adult may choose to be circumcised? Therefore, the fact that you don't see natural men getting circumcisions except in extreme cases simply confirms that. Your logic is a little like arguing that the fact that most adult males don't choose to play dominoes of a Sunday afternoon means that playing dominoes of a Sunday afternoon must be big deal. It's certainly not something I can get excited about one way or the other, dominoes, that is.

... but millions of people play dominoes all the time, including many that have never done so before.
 
But don't you see how your logic is flawed? If it isn't a big deal one way or the other then why would an adult may choose to be circumcised? Therefore, the fact that you don't see natural men getting circumcisions except in extreme cases simply confirms that. Your logic is a little like arguing that the fact that most adult males don't choose to play dominoes of a Sunday afternoon means that playing dominoes of a Sunday afternoon must be big deal. It's certainly not something I can get excited about one way or the other, dominoes, that is.

Take tatoos. They are a *big deal* to me in much the same way that not having a circumcision is. It would hurt, it is somewhat dangerous and I couldn't undo the changes later. Hence, I have neither.

If it wasn't a *big deal* I might get a tatoo. For fun. To show it off. Because I got drunk and my mates made me get one. To impress girls, or at least a girl.

Same with losing my foreskin: If it wasn't a big deal there'd be a number of little or silly reasons that would make some people chose to lose their foreskin. (I've seen an image once of some native group of people somewhere where the males would slice their foreskins into fringes. I would do *that* just for laughs if it wasn't a big deal.
 
Take tatoos. They are a *big deal* to me in much the same way that not having a circumcision is. It would hurt, it is somewhat dangerous and I couldn't undo the changes later. Hence, I have neither.

If it wasn't a *big deal* I might get a tatoo. For fun. To show it off. Because I got drunk and my mates made me get one. To impress girls, or at least a girl.

Same with losing my foreskin: If it wasn't a big deal there'd be a number of little or silly reasons that would make some people chose to lose their foreskin. (I've seen an image once of some native group of people somewhere where the males would slice their foreskins into fringes. I would do *that* just for laughs if it wasn't a big deal.

So how many things can you think of that aren't "big deals", and please tell us why you're not working your way through them all!
 
So how many things can you think of that aren't "big deals", and please tell us why you're not working your way through them all!

Let me try this again:

Not having part cut of my penis is a big deal to me. It is important to me to not have any bits cut off of me anywhere except for hair and nails. Hence, I will not do it.

If something isn't as important to me, I might just decide to do it - or not do it, as the case may be - on any odd whim.

I could write a long list of things that I don't have particularly strong feelings about. A large number of them will be things I've already done. For those that I haven't done the reason should be painfully obvious: Because doing those things isn't a big deal. It's not important either way - so why should I get out of my way and do those things? There are things that are a big deal and that I keep busy doing or keep (relatively) busy avoiding.

But I still do a lot of things that aren't a big deal to me. I had an ice cream the day before yesterday, e.g. It wasn't a big deal, and I nearly didn't have one.

I expect that most people wouldn't consider the choice between having an ice cream and not having one a terribly big deal. And because of that, you are very likely to find a lot of people who make the decision either way. It's not important, so it takes very little for someone to have an ice cream.

That, apparently, cannot be said of circumcision: There doesn't seem to be a large number of people that get themselves circumcised. Not "just because", not because they felt like it, wanted a change, were curious, or what have you.
 
For those that I haven't done the reason should be painfully obvious: Because doing those things isn't a big deal. It's not important either way - so why should I get out of my way and do those things?

This is exactly my point. This could well be the argument posited by all the adult males who have chosen not to be circumcised! Get it?
 
This is exactly my point. This could well be the argument posited by all the adult males who have chosen not to be circumcised! Get it?

It would be unlikely, though.

Plus, of course, it should be childs' play to get some of these people to say so, too.

Can you find 10 uncircumcised men who not only aren't circumcised simply because they never considered it, but who at least feel that they might just do it?

Can you find 50? 100?

They certainly seem to be suspiciously absent from this thread, don't they?
 
I gave a list of some values a parent might hold that would make circumcision beneficial for an infant. I explained that just because you may give these values no weight, that does not make you objective. Your view is as subjective as the person who holds these values.

Since you cannot state that there is objectively no benefit to an infant gained by circumcision, you cannot state that circumcision should be disallowed. These subjective benefits may outweigh any and all costs.

Failing to understand that he has no claim to objective universal truth, ImaginalDisc pretends to answer:


A) There is no god.


In your opinion.


B) You have never professed religious belief on this forum, so while that argument may work for others, it doesn't work for you.


If you have here conceded the point that Jews should be allowed to circumcise their children, then thanks. Otherwise, this is irrelevant.


A family that hurts it children is not a family worth having.


And this is exactly what I mean. You are assuming the consequent. A family that circumcises its children must be "hurting" them, in your view, because there is no justification for circumcision; but family unity is the justification for circumcision, so those families are not "hurting" their children. All you have shown is that you are unable to get out of the way of your own subjective prejudices. This is nothing but your opinion, as good as anyone else's.


Please demonstrate that uncircumcised men have weaker family and community bonds. If they do not, then this argument fails.


Don't be silly. There may be many other ways that create family bonding. I'm sure families bond when putting up Christmas lights, for example. Unfortunately, Christmas decoration related deaths are far, far higher than deaths from infant circumcision. So, we'll stick with that.


Do you shave? Do you stone to death disobedient children? Do deny crippled men access to the synagogue? All those things, ancient Hebrews did. Even if there is a good way to honor one's ancestors by following their traditions, consider first what you owe your children and their children, rather than your departed dead. Should children be injured to honor the dead?


Once again, it is only "injury" if it is not offset by benefits. Once again, you show that you subjectively do not value the benefits that I have listed. Once again, you assume your conclusion. And, once again, you are wrong.

There can be negatives to honoring the dead but these can be offset by positives.


Being enslaved by Egyptians would build solidarity with the Hebrews of Exodus, that doesn't reccomend it. In my opinion, the Jewish tradition of (men at least) studying the writen word of ancestors thousands of years dead is, I'd argue, a much better way to honor them then chopping bits off.


As you are not Jewish, your opinion is at best uninformed.

However, if you would like to dictate how Jews practice their religion, I have several rules that I would like to impose on how Christians practice theirs.


There are things I would do for money, but hurting my own child is not among them.


Your subjective opinion about the subject is noted. It bears no weight, but it is noted.
 
I think the only way to prove it is to have Joe get circumcised. If he's willing to do that I'll concede that it's no big deal. Assuming he's intact which is my understanding from reading the thread. I'm sure we can drum up enough cash to pay for it, I'll throw my $100 in right now.
 
I gave a list of some values a parent might hold that would make circumcision beneficial for an infant. I explained that just because you may give these values no weight, that does not make you objective. Your view is as subjective as the person who holds these values.

Since you cannot state that there is objectively no benefit to an infant gained by circumcision, you cannot state that circumcision should be disallowed. These subjective benefits may outweigh any and all costs.

The scientific evidence is that circumcision in infants provides no benefits in excess of the risks, including infection and irreperable damage. Circumcision in adults is far less risky, yet it remains an unpopular procedure.

Failing to understand that he has no claim to objective universal truth, ImaginalDisc pretends to answer:



In your opinion.

A) There is no god, that is a simple matter of fact. There's no leprechaun in my pocket, no dragon in my garage, and no magical sky chieftan. This a simple scientific matter. Even if there is some utterly intangible prime mover, it certainly did not conjure the world 6000 years ago, flood the planet, or any of the other miracles your ancestors naively thought it did.

If you're going to jutify harming children based on god's dictates, the prudent thing to do is establish it exists.





If you have here conceded the point that Jews should be allowed to circumcise their children, then thanks. Otherwise, this is irrelevant.

False and false. I am pointing out that you cannot take refuge in delusion, since you aren't religious.





And this is exactly what I mean. You are assuming the consequent. A family that circumcises its children must be "hurting" them, in your view, because there is no justification for circumcision; but family unity is the justification for circumcision, so those families are not "hurting" their children. All you have shown is that you are unable to get out of the way of your own subjective prejudices. This is nothing but your opinion, as good as anyone else's.

My opinion of circumcision isn't a subjective prejudice, it's a scientific conclusion. Circumcision has a small risk of death or disbmeberment for compartively little benefit, and the risks are particularly high for infants, the very age group Jews circumcise. In a matter of simple fact, it endangers children.





Don't be silly. There may be many other ways that create family bonding. I'm sure families bond when putting up Christmas lights, for example. Unfortunately, Christmas decoration related deaths are far, far higher than deaths from infant circumcision. So, we'll stick with that.

Would you care to find a source for that?





Once again, it is only "injury" if it is not offset by benefits. Once again, you show that you subjectively do not value the benefits that I have listed. Once again, you assume your conclusion. And, once again, you are wrong.

There can be negatives to honoring the dead but these can be offset by positives.

What positives? You have yet to demonstrate that they exist.





As you are not Jewish, your opinion is at best uninformed.

However, if you would like to dictate how Jews practice their religion, I have several rules that I would like to impose on how Christians practice theirs.

A) Are you seriously suggesting that being circumcised like ancient Hebrews creates more solidarity with Jewish identity than studying the Jewish religion and history?

HA!

If that were true, male Muslims the world over would identify with Jews, rather than often being the most notorious anti-Semites.

B) Feel free to dictate to Christians what they ought to and not to do. I love watching delusional people fight.





Your subjective opinion about the subject is noted. It bears no weight, but it is noted.


I don't pretend to be Spock, but if there is an ounce of subjectivity in my posts, there is a mountain of it in yours. You flagarantly disregard the medical facts about circumcision and instead insert religious arguments for it, from a religion you don't actually believe in. That's practically schizophrenic.

ETA: I'm waiting for you to explain to me why you're insulting Jewish people, and your own family specifically. You're strongly implying that your children cannot be accepted by their own family unless something is done to their genitals. Are your family members really so cold that they wouldn't love your child just the same if they weren't circumcised?
 
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Just to cut a few pages off the thread, I think I should explain Loss Leader's reasoning, which is along the following lines:

My (newborn) son is currently incapable of judging what is best for him, therefore whatever I think is best for him (and is within the law) is what is best for him.

I think this reasoning would be valid if his son's period of incapacity to decide was indeterminate, or of long enough duration such that physical or psychological harm would be likely.

I cannot see either of these being true as far as circumcision is concerned.
 
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I think the only way to prove it is to have Joe get circumcised. If he's willing to do that I'll concede that it's no big deal. Assuming he's intact which is my understanding from reading the thread. I'm sure we can drum up enough cash to pay for it, I'll throw my $100 in right now.

I already suggested that, but he was strangely silent at the mere suggestion. I wonder why. :rolleyes:

Prove it.
Burden of proof is on you, hon.
 
Kind of sad to see an atheist use god as justification for his primitive "tradition", huh?
 
This is exactly my point. This could well be the argument posited by all the adult males who have chosen not to be circumcised! Get it?

No, it could not, for the reason I gave -- in every single other instance of an act that is not a big deal, you find people doing it for some reason or another.

You might not do it, because there is no good reason for you, but if the "activation energy" is so low (due to it not being a big deal) then someone will be doing it. Just like playing dominoes.

But nobody, anywhere in the world, ever has a random circumcision. Why is that?
 
I'm certainly puzzled by the "insertion speed" aspect. How, exactly, does a foreskin help, and how much time difference are we talking here? From my experience the foreskin is always retracted before insertion, the limiting factor being lubrication (oh, and not forgetting foreplay, of course!).

Aheh. It seems like nobody considers the people on the low ends of the anatomical bell curve, in these discussions.

For girls who, for example, do not self lubricate particularly well, or who suffer from uncommon, moderately crappy and basically untreatable conditions like having a chronically sensitive vestibule, tugging the foreskin up a bit helps A WHOLE LOT in getting in, in both ease and comfort, and it also pretty much negates the sort of chafing that can leave such a girl sadly declining further adventures the next day.

Such girls are not anything like the majority but I assure you they exist. And male circumcision makes a significant difference to them.

ETA: Olowkow's post described a bunch of this stuff:

I'm not so sure. Hope this has not already been posted:
http://www.cirp.org/library/sex_function/

Everything you want to know about the subject:
http://www.cirp.org
I have no idea if the writers had any agenda or not, but I have read the same elsewhere(...)
 
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