Checkmite
Skepticifimisticalationist
I think the points you raise are very good. They get to the essence of the problem of brain washing, which I see here as the obvious fact that some people join weird groups and do stuff you would never predict from their demographic background.
I don't know much about any of these weird groups, except the Family of Love. The Family is a Christ-based sex cult. They use sexually available women to lure people into their group. At one time, they used to send them to bars and other places to meet people. Once in the group, you live in communal houses, follow a strict regime, and have what appears to be unlimited access to women. At one time, they claimed a vast membership. My understanding is that these days, almost all members are born into the group. Apparently they're even having trouble keeping kids of members in the group. As much as that would be this powerful thing you're talking about, it hasn't worked very well for The Family.
Well, but you're neglecting to account for another thing too, which is that groups like The Family and Scientology aren't run by the same people as they used to be, and their methods and priorities have changed over time with new leadership. Although it still offers its silly personality tests and will take money from anyone who comes, Scientology has shifted its focus toward recruiting celebrities by being trendy; these folks never have to be taught the "Xenu" lore at all - in fact, they aren't. They're content to do their auditing sessions to remove their "engrams" without ever getting to the part where the engrams aren't really traumatic memories, but the souls of dead space aliens. Why bother? The celebs will keep paying - and the "Xenu" thing may have been important to Hubbard, but the new leaders feel differently. The Family, as I understand it, was hit by a child molestation scandal and the murder-suicide of Ricky Rodriguez; it will never be able to recover from the bad publicity in the wake of these things and so is pretty much doomed to death. They barely even bother trying to recruit anymore.
But you are right; many "new religious groups" are suffering the same fate. Why? Well, I think it's because they're largely irrelevant nowadays. There was a reason these groups were a big hit in the 70's and 80's, and the wants they exploited back then just don't need to be filled by as many people anymore. The rise of secular thought is largely to be credited with that, I think, along with a trend of the return of the religious to tradition and fundamentalism.
Are there any groups taking these peoples' place? Not to the same degree...but there are groups using the same tactics, where initiation is effectively a mental assault designed to invalidate your current point of view and replace it with something else, something pointedly inclined to justify paying your new best friends lots of money, and recruiting other people to give theirs. Again, it doesn't work on everybody (mostly on those who are in a state of vulnerability) - and again, it's not the "strap people to chairs and drug them or zap them into submission" that many conspiracy theorists evoke when they use the term "mind control"; although in some ways it can be just as reprehensible.
An example of this kind of group which immediately comes to mind is a private company that runs "tough love teen rehabilitation" camps, which used to be called at different times Teen Help, Teen Challenge, and WWASP but is probably called something else by now, as it changes its name occasionally to dodge bad publicity. WWASP schools, which are mostly located in foreign countries and have a habit of being closed down by those governments for egregious maltreatment of their "students", are advertised to parents of "out-of-control" children and portrayed as tough but safe and effective treatment centers where these kids will learn to respect themselves and others more, and earn an education to boot. Well of course the facilities are largely basically just prisons; the staff hired in these countries tend to be brutal and are never actually trained, and the schools' curriculum is accredited by essentially a front organization run by the same people who run the schools themselves. But the parents are kept from knowing about this, and in fact end up being required themselves to attend a set of weekend seminars (the first one is free!) that seem to be designed to psychologically torture them into becoming fervent advocates of the program, to the point of dismissing out-of-hand any negative criticism of it - including from their own children whom, the parents are told, will make up fiction about abusive and degrading conditions in order to manipulate them into feeling guilty and withdrawing their children from the program. For fun I would suggest reading this, an account by a parent who attended one of the seminars - in the article there's a link to a separate account of the same event written by his wife from her perspective - as it illustrates a bit of what I'm describing; I'm not going on about high-pressure sales or team-building exercises here.
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