e.g. Are the men pictured below projecting an image of high social status?
The one in red is. She looks like any number of badass ladies I've known.
OK I think one of the things that is bugging me about all this is the old gendered double standard that, since at least the 1970's, it's more or less OK for anyone to act more like a stereotypical man because 'men's' mannerisms etc are 'really the default and better' ones.
If you're a man acting more like a man's man makes you heroic and awesome. If you're a woman acting like a man's man just means ladies telling you you aren't going to attract a man like that, and fundies telling you you're screwing up the social order, quit it.
But anyone that wants to act more like a stereotypical woman is degrading themselves, because 'women's' mannerisms are stupid. If you're a woman acting like a woman's woman, well for starters the connotation isn't that you're kicking ass at being a mom or something positive like that, but rather that you're doing that stuff JJ just said, all the negative and being-a-pain-in-the-ass stereotypes. And if you're a man acting like a woman, whoa Nelly, everyone is instantly UP IN YOUR ****. WHAT ARE YOU DOING.
I could make a detailed and pointed argument here but instead I'm going to say I want this whole concept to just **** off. I think men wanting to do cool woman stuff that they enjoy is ******* great. Just like women wanting to do cool woman stuff that they enjoy if great. And if we could get ******* comfortable with that, trans folks could get the curb-cut effect out of the whole deal.
That and, photos like that just remind me of lineups of older ladies meetups where one or two are lookin really smokin and the rest are a little bit frumpy or just comfortably not trying to look amazing. It BUGS ME to see photos like that of 'hi we're all together and friends!' of ANYBODY, posted up for judgement. I know this one is for a finishing school for trans women etc. I don't care. And if these folks are too pretty or too frumpy or too feminine-performative or their hair/wigs look funny then all that applies to the women in all those old-friends-reunion photos. Knock it off, they're PEOPLE.