Hello all,
Most people consider stress as a bad & unhealthful condition to our body. Is it true? Whether stress is always bad to us?
"Stress is defined as an organism's total response to an environmental condition or stimulus, also known as a stressor. Stress typically describes a negative condition that can have an impact on an organism's mental and physical well-being."-- wikipedia
I am bit doubtful about it and just want to clear it.
Best wishes.
Not really,
-the body has a normal response of arousal, when something happens that may requite more attention and energy as it were.
-the body however is not meant to be in a state of arousal for extended periods
-negative events frequently cause people to feel sad and over whelmed
-major life changes, whether happy or sad require extra energy and attention
Now given these and some other common factors, what is stress and stressful?
Usually what people mean when they say they are
stressed out, they mean that they feel tired and that they feel easily overwhelmed. When people say that they feel
stress it means that they a negative emotion regarding something they are experiencing or have to get done.
Now the crucial part of it is this
-arousal is a normal response to life, but being in that state for an extended period leads to depletion of resources, where people feel more irritable, vulnerable and overwhelmed.
-some events are very negative and people are going to have negative emotions and responses to them, they will also have depletion of their resources
-even positive and especially major life changes induce extended periods of arousal and lead to depletion of resources.
So a
stressor usually falls into one of four categories:
-an environment or life choices that leads to extended periods of arousal and subsequent depletion
-a major negative event that leads to negative emotions and consequences
-a major life change that leads to extended arousal and depletion
-an event that occurs
during a state of depleted resources that leads to
feeling anxious, overwhelmed, irritable and incapable
So the best way to deal with stress, feeling stressed and stressors
-take care of yourself, get enough sleep, eat well, exercise, engage in non depleting activities and have down time
-make a conscious boundary between work/stress environments and the rest of your life. Have a 'leaving work' ritual as it were, do not take work home, do not talk about work at home, do not engage in work at home.
-change your environment so that you are not always in an environment you associate with stress and negative emotions, get away and hour everyday and take time away at least one day a week. Go someplace quiet, calming or soothing that is not your usual environment.
-make your home life less like your work life. Do not schedule your weekend like it is work, do not fill your free time with over stimulating events and activities. Do not drive your self during your free time to get more done and stay on schedule, do not over schedule your home life.
-build up supportive networks and people, avoid negative environments and people
There is no magic bullet for stress and its effects, there is a global change in life style that will make you less vulnerable to it.
(This is the distillation of a stress work shop that was eight hours)