Since I have been so rude to participate in this thread without referring to the OP, let me remedy that now.
I am not so sure I "arrived at atheism" as much as I was always there, and none of the options I examined were compelling enough to change my mind.
Yup. Fortunately, Maui isn't all that bad a place to find myself.
Right now? Finish my glass of Sauvignon Blanc, take a bath with a good book, and climb into bed satisfied that another day has been spent with me around to appreciate it.
Nope. If someone truly wants to be stupid (your words, not mine), it is not up to me to "rescue" them, but up to them. However, if they choose to use their stupidity (again, your words) to cause others to suffer, or to deliberately annoy me, then yes, I will react strongly.
Booze, bath, book. See above.
Positive for whom? Me? My husband? My neighbors? The world? I do recycle and bought solar panels for our house. Does that count as a contribution to world health and peace? I am afraid you will have to be more specific here.
Nope.
That has been addressed, but I do have a list of charities I sponsor, and I am always happy to buy the next round, particularly when I know that the others in my group may not be as fortunate.
Slathering my husband (also an atheist) with love, affection, and foot and backrubs as I know full well this is my one and only chance to be with him. When one of us dies, I do not want the survivor to have any regrets, only wonderful memories. Once both of us are dead, it will no longer matter in any meaningful sense, so carpe diem!