What's the difference between benefited more and consumed more? Does someone paying ten times the amount of property taxes get 10 times the amounts of benefits from society, or are they getting so much more that they should be progressively property taxed so that they are paying 20 times the amount as someone else?
Government programs set up a society with rules in which we can prosper. Some prosper more from our society than others. Therefore, those who prosper more are benefiting more from the government programs.
A variation of the argument is that someone with more to lose arguably benefits more from police and fire protection. Someone who makes more money from commerce benefits more from public highways and infrastructure. Someone who benefits financially from the relative stability of our economy benefits more from military protection.
-Bri