sadhatter
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Got your attention probably.
But the thread title is somewhat misleading, this isn't to discuss that religious people are dumb, but a request for help , from religious folks or otherwise.
I have a friend, short time ct'er, but he seems to be digging a bit of skepticism lately. I am tickled pink about this, but my problem is i want to help him not be a skeptic stereotype ( even if only the subject in question is something he would agree with the jref on.)
His rightful beef is with televangilists, peter popoff and all. And that is good, but he is of the " all religious people are stupid" train of thought.
Now i want to try and nip this in the but as soon as possible. But i don't really know how to go about it. Through knowing people, i attribute it more to vulnerability and indoctrination, but he is even more of a " Suck it up, be a better person" kind of guy than myself, and doesn't seem to be able to wrap his head around the fact that someone may be smart as hell, but for various other reasons be religious.
My fear, is that if he does start to embrace skepticisim ( even this part of it, but this is where i started when i became a jrefer, so i have hope.) , and does it in this way, he may give it up given enough evidence to the contrary that indeed religious people can be smart. TO put it a touch poetically, i don't want him to build his home on a foundation of spun sugar.
So any suggestions? I want to convince him, but i don't want to convince him the other way, lol. So just pimping out religious geniuses wouldn't cut it.
But the thread title is somewhat misleading, this isn't to discuss that religious people are dumb, but a request for help , from religious folks or otherwise.
I have a friend, short time ct'er, but he seems to be digging a bit of skepticism lately. I am tickled pink about this, but my problem is i want to help him not be a skeptic stereotype ( even if only the subject in question is something he would agree with the jref on.)
His rightful beef is with televangilists, peter popoff and all. And that is good, but he is of the " all religious people are stupid" train of thought.
Now i want to try and nip this in the but as soon as possible. But i don't really know how to go about it. Through knowing people, i attribute it more to vulnerability and indoctrination, but he is even more of a " Suck it up, be a better person" kind of guy than myself, and doesn't seem to be able to wrap his head around the fact that someone may be smart as hell, but for various other reasons be religious.
My fear, is that if he does start to embrace skepticisim ( even this part of it, but this is where i started when i became a jrefer, so i have hope.) , and does it in this way, he may give it up given enough evidence to the contrary that indeed religious people can be smart. TO put it a touch poetically, i don't want him to build his home on a foundation of spun sugar.
So any suggestions? I want to convince him, but i don't want to convince him the other way, lol. So just pimping out religious geniuses wouldn't cut it.