Garrette said:Second, my real point is this:
If the original ticket-holder had not gotten sick and had instead gone to the taping, and JE had said the same thing he had said to the neighbor who DID attend, then it is reasonable, given hits from other shows, that the ticket-holder would have validated it as a hit, saying something like "Yes! That's my neighbor's son! She really wanted to come today!" (You could even leave off the last bit).
Garrette, reading that, I think it's a safe guess that you do not really watch the show all that often.
Of course it is entirely possible that the woman's son would see an opportunity to get a message to his grieving mom, Garrette. This sort of thing happens all the time. But if that were to happen, John first would have had to come up with either the mom's name/initial or the son's name/initial, or possibly both. He might even have been shown how the woman's son died, so that the woman who got the reading would have been able to make the connection to her neighbor.
Without that additional information, I doubt it would have gone anywhere. There is no reason to even believe that this woman had told anyone else about hearing her son's voice. She could very well have kept that private, so if her son wanted to let her know that he was around, he would have had to come up with a few validations that the neighbor would have understood, otherwise it would have been meaningless.
I think you and others would still have counted it as a hit.
Does that suggest anything to you? That the same information given to two different people would be counted just as strongly as a hit?
I hope you are understanding what I am saying here. It's not a one size fits all type of thing. In either case, it would still be the same spirit coming through for his mom, either directly or indirectly.
If the spirit gave JE enough information to get the neighbor to understand who the message was for, (names, dates, cause of death etc.) then of course I would count that as a hit. It would be an excellent validation if the other pieces all fit.........neo