Other posters have already posted, and I feel compelled to share in some debauchery on the topic with you.
Flirting with these ideas are healthy, as long as you don't take it too far.
I have slightly re-ordered your question in an attempt to be more coherent in my own responses (failed as that might turn out).
Time, as we know it, very much exists. It is a measurable element that we can record.
But, as the saying goes "Depends who you ask" - If you ask that same question of an electron just before or after it
jumps - his answer might be different.
Even so, time does indeed exist.
[*]Is time as we view it an illusion?
Time very well could be an illusion, restricted in it's effect and "visibility", to only that which is consciously able to perceive it.
Many have gone so far as to claim that Einstein's definition of time as relative, indicates malleability to the point of illusion.
Other hypothesis stipulate that time might just be the visible effect that other dimensions might have on our perceivable dimensions.
Many different theories as to the real nature of time, including that of it being an illusion, exists. So far, none have been able to produce the reproducible results that Einstein had.
For that reason, until such results are forthcoming, we have to default to that which is known by the scientific method.
[*]Are we conditioned to see time in a linear way?
See above.
But moreover, I do not think so. Many theorists have gone out of their way, even dedicating their entire careers towards the investigation of time as non-linear.
That in itself suggests to me, that we have broken free from such conditioning, should it ever have existed.
[*]Has everything already happened but we are just viewing one moment at a
Many things in Quantum Mechanics/Theory suggests that this might indeed be the case.
One example often used is that of
Quantum Superposition.
Quite simply (almost TOO simply) one thing can exist in many places all at once, but it is our perception that makes it appear one way/place/speed or the other.
It could be possible that everything has already happened, and we are merely observing it, as if played back after the fact on a DVD...
But as above, until such things can be shown by method as fact, we have to default to that which is already known.
I welcome any further discussion with you on this, should you wish to pursue it - on a strictly hypothetical basis of course.
While I can help, to certain degrees of efficiency, explain more complicated theories in a possibly more relatible manner - I must apologize and confess that some of quantum's deeper mechanics elude even the hardiest of intellects.
I think I can safely say that nobody understands quantum mechanics.
- Richard Feynman,
- The Character of Physical Law (1965)